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November 12, 2009
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cissy
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hi I am having problems. I don't know what to do? I am very depressed and my husband doesn't care about my feeling or what I think. He doesn't care about my family only about his. I cant leave because of the kids and I am scared to leave. I have never been alone. and I am scared of the unknown. I don't know how to deal with this and it has affected myself and everything that I am.

November 12, 2009
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Sorry to hear, but why are you scared, are they no family member to help you, do you need to protect yourself and kids. Being alone is not the end of the world, yes if you have to start from scratch it would be hard for you especially if you have to support your kids by yourself. But take one day at a time and think about what exactly you want for you and then go from there.

November 12, 2009
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Hi Cissy,

Glad you found this site. So tell us more about what is going on, so we can help you sort out your feelings.

November 12, 2009
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"Fear knocked on the door-Faith answered-no one was there...." I too was afraid of doing it on my own -I currently am raising five kids on my own .I work a mans job for a mans pay and am usually exausted -but it is a good tired -not the emotional exaustion that comes from as I call it -becoming a non person. There is so much pain inolved in not being heard or listened to or getting any validation. So I had two choices -stay where i was (very unhappy) or take a leap of faith and see what happened.And as for the fear of being alone -I found that even when I was with my ex, I was still alone.

November 12, 2009
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(((Cissy))),

I remember being depressed, and not only my now ex not caring, he did not notice. Tears would be welled up in my eyes, and he was off in la la land. We have been apart for almost 4 years now. I can see that he cannot care about others. I had resources to leave, and it sounds like you do not feel you have them.

I don't know what to tell you. I talked to friends at the time........I cried, and that is around the time I discovered this site.

but4thegrace - wow! Very profound: "I found that even when I was with my ex, I was still alone."

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