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confusec
August 29, 2005
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hi all,
am new here and am glad to join inn. am just feel lonely as am not in good terms with my man, and cant really talk to anyone about it. I want to keep it all but it hurts, and got my work to concentrate, got to find school to join inn.. help!!!

August 29, 2005
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Hi katoto
Welcome to this site. You will find here, people who will listen without judging you and help you deal with the hurt etc. The best part is that no one knows you over here so you can be brutally honest, vent and get relief. Keep posting.

May I ask why you are not on good terms with your man? Once again, welcome here!!

August 29, 2005
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thanx regret,
well with him is he is okay and very nice man, we been seeing one another for the past 3 months, his family knows me and mine knows him. but lately he is not sure about his feelings for his ex, if he is over her completly.
they were together 4 the past 4 years and broke up last year. were not in good terms for sometimes before they broke up. she moved on, and he started but now!!!!!!
i dont think he will fully trust me, love me, as he is having pain from tha previous relationship. and i really like him a lot, i dont want to loose him. so am confused.

August 29, 2005
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Thanks for the information. There are a few things to consider here and one is the fact that he is unsure of his feelings towards his ex. This is something that He alone can resolve. You can be supportive to him while he goes through this transition. At the end of the day, you two might end up together as lovers or as friends.

I suggest that you detach from him sexually if you have sexual relations and be available as a friend to him. This is because some guys seek comfort through sex and might be using you for that. Help him put things into perspective by being a friend so that he can really figure out where he wants to put his emotions.

All the best

August 29, 2005
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Trust is the most important part of any relationship. Without it, all will flounder. Regret gave you some good advice. You will find that here, lots of loving people, sharing what life has taught them in order to help others.

Praying for you.

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