Me and my friend has been seeing each other for a while. But we keep going over and over with this same problem and I don't care what we do something is just not working.
I just realize that I have to call my friend because if I don't call him, I want hear from him. Then when I stop calling him, then he get mad and leave stupid messages on my machine that he haven't heard from me but he has a cell phone and a home phone. He got mad because I told him that. But when he wants some (loving) or when he gets some (loving) he is calling and always confessing his love.
Now when we are at work, he wants to call and talk, well I can't talk like that all the time to him. I have called him several times when his boss is right there with him and he told me that, so i give him respect to not to call while he is at work. If he calls me while we are working, then I know that he has a little time to talk.
He knows that he is doing this because when I brought it to his attention, he said that I know him so well. When I made up in mind to call him all the time and don't wait for him to call me then he told me that I was doing a very good job because I am calling him all the time. I told him today that I just realize that, that game he is playing is no good anymore and he bet not call me ever getting mad at me because I don't call him and he is sitting there with two phone and can't call anybody. I think he feel that by calling i am showing my love for him.
I don't know. It seem like a little controlling to me. What do you guy think?