Avatar
Please consider registering
guest
sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register
Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
sp_TopicIcon
Compete
August 30, 2006
10:05 pm
Avatar
Slipped
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Taking a class. Woman that sits next to me understands the material. I understand most of it, however, have had a very difficult time understanding a certain portion of the new material. Why do I compete with the woman next to me? I wanted to be more advanced and understand the course better than her for some reason. She of course does not know how I feel. I am depressed because I am not doing as well as she is doing in the class. Feel depressed.

August 31, 2006
6:22 am
Avatar
CAMER
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 100
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

hi slipped....try not to feel like you may have to be #1, with taking the class, do the best that you can for yourself....and who cares if she is doing better, i am sure there are lots that may be doing better than her, and lots who are doing worse than both of you......Just do what is good for you and try your hardest.

August 31, 2006
9:15 pm
Avatar
Slipped
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Camer, I know that is how I should feel but I do feel bad. Codependency issues again! Teacher is my mother, person who sits next to me is my sister. I want my mother's love and attention. She gives it to my sister.
Need to keep working the 12 steps. I wish the person next to me well. I'll keep working on myself. The person next to me told me that she has been getting help from a professional in the real world. I have not had any help from anybody. I'll do my best. I hope that my Higher Power will help me. Thank you for writing.

Forum Timezone: UTC -8
Most Users Ever Online: 247
Currently Online:
30
Guest(s)
Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)
Top Posters:
onedaythiswillpass: 1134
zarathustra: 562
StronginHim77: 453
free: 433
2013ways: 431
curious64: 408
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 49
Members: 110914
Moderators: 5
Admins: 3
Forum Stats:
Groups: 8
Forums: 74
Topics: 38536
Posts: 714200
Newest Members:
Striker1s, marcusz, Keara, Venn, Jolebio, loni89
Moderators: arochaIB: 1, devadmin: 9, Tincho: 0, Donn Gruta: 0, Germain Palacios: 0
Administrators: admin: 21, ShiningLight: 572, emily430: 29

Copyright © 2019 MH Sub I, LLC. All rights reserved. Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Cookie Policy | Health Disclaimer