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CODEPENDENT, OBSESSIVE IN LAWS (GILBERT GRAPE mimic)
July 17, 2018
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My fiances parents are literally OBSESSED!!! They call 4-5 times a day for my fiance even after he tells them he is busy and if he doesn't answer they call up his side of the family and wreck havoc. I am currently pregnant and have been already having a rough time. Them calling up his phone an mine NONSTOP has made me so angry I want to go off.
They blame me for my fiances distance. My fiance had a rough life at home living with his parents. They have always been morbidly obese and reliant on both him an his sister to do basic household things and take care of themselves. They use to get made fun of and weren't able to play with certain people because others did not like how little mind my fiances parents had paid to anything. Every time we would go over his parents they would ask us to do house work, go shopping, return bottles, put away groceries, and to me this is unfair, NEVER do they call to see how WE are, just for FAVORS. My fiance resents them for it. But why am I to blame. I cant really respect them a whole lot with the simple fact they put both my fiance and his sister THROUGH HELL. And they are VERY ungreatful and selfish. They want everyone to come to them because they are 400lbs but NEVER make an effort to see my family, or their own. They even showed up late to my fiances grandfathers FUNERAL!! I have tried to be as nice as I can. But I am past the point of no return. I have completely blocked them out of my life. As for me I'm not worried, But I feel for my fiance and our baby on the way. I dont think its fair to keep them away, but I think its UNFAIR and ridiculous that they rely on us when they put this on themselves. This has been an ongoing thing my fiances whole life and he has expressed his feelings they wont stop. His mother was even in the hospital for a month AND ALMOST died. she was suppose to lose the weight an still hasnt and wont.

I know this is alot, but i just want to make sure Im not crazy for feeling the way I do.CryYell

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