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codependent addict loves addict
August 23, 2006
11:35 am
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im new here and im goin through it. I love someone who is off and running in his addiction. I know i can't save him but it kills me to see what he's doing and who he's doing it with. I've noticed that he can be bought by any man or woman, as long as they supply his habit. recently it has been a trashy trashy woman that uses him. sexually and otherwise. i can't kiss him anymore. the image of their encounter haunts me. He'll be back soon. I'm afraid that i'll let him in again. what i should do and what i want to do are 2 different things. pls help me.

August 23, 2006
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Q -

How long has this relationship been going on?

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August 23, 2006
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about 1 year. it started off as a friendship and moved into physical. til him i havn't been intimate with anyone for 2 years. was i looking for the perfect dependent?

August 23, 2006
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Why would you let him back into your life? He is an addict. You cannot trust him and he is NOT in the process of working to change.

August 23, 2006
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do you have the strength to just cut ties with him, & know that you cannot change him, it has to come from himself "within"......its easier to let go & go on with your life the way you want it and just realize he is not worthy of you, he is with another woman. It shows alot of the character. Stay strong.

August 24, 2006
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thanks every one for your replies. funny, the shick got arrested and guess where he is now. on my couch. HELP.

August 27, 2006
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drop him like a bad habit.you have your problems and dont need his.wouldnt it feel good to be care free?take control of your life back or you will end up like my grandma.see going back to prison thread.at the bottom.addicts are like fleas in my opinion and want to feed off the first dog to come along.good luck.--butterfly

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