Avatar
Please consider registering
guest
sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register
Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
sp_TopicIcon
codependancy
May 21, 2009
10:24 pm
Avatar
selfesteem
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I get myself attached to other codependance. After a while of being involved in a specific codependent relationship the person gets tired of me. It is probally because after a while I get tired of being controlled. how do I stop this cycle. I see so many books on the codependent itself but how about someone like me that gets attached to a codependent.

May 21, 2009
11:01 pm
Avatar
balancesekr
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

You can check out the book, Facing Love Addiction by Pia Mellody, I believe. It talks about the cycle of the Love Addict and the Love Avoidant.

Its a good book. Check it out for sure!

May 24, 2009
1:23 am
Avatar
selfesteem
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Thank you for the kind advice. I will check out the book to try to help me with this issue. Again unfortunelly most books on the codependent topic talk about the person who is being the codependent not the person who is clinging to the codependent.

May 26, 2009
11:16 pm
Avatar
stressed mommie
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Hi codependancy,
I am having the same type of issue, mine is with my children. I was a single mother of two and now that they are grown, I am constantly looking for their approval. My Daughter, who is 27 & the mother of 2 yr old twins, is a bully. She puts everything I do down, she uses every chance she can of hurting me, she is rude & disrespectful, she never admits to her own faults she just blames them all on me. and what is crazy? I take it and keep coming back for more...when do you get kicked in the teeth enough to turn away. I have always had very low self esteem and it seems like she feeds off of it. What do I do to stop this cycle? I am so depressed over this that it is all I can think about. Any ideas?

Forum Timezone: UTC -8
Most Users Ever Online: 349
Currently Online:
38
Guest(s)
Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)
Top Posters:
onedaythiswillpass: 1134
zarathustra: 562
StronginHim77: 453
free: 433
2013ways: 431
curious64: 408
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 49
Members: 111048
Moderators: 5
Admins: 3
Forum Stats:
Groups: 8
Forums: 74
Topics: 38581
Posts: 714357
Newest Members:
nickvoz, jron1945bas, juliaopty, uoi, jamescortes, rickymorgan3165
Moderators: arochaIB: 1, devadmin: 9, Tincho: 0, Donn Gruta: 0, Germain Palacios: 0
Administrators: admin: 21, ShiningLight: 572, emily430: 29

Copyright © 2020 MH Sub I, LLC. All rights reserved.
Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Cookie Policy | Health Disclaimer | Do Not Sell My Personal Information