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children abusing children concered about mine
October 14, 2008
4:32 am
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I know of a child that has been abused sexally and his own parents are concerened about him abusing there other daughter who is my daughters age my daugter and her are friends and they are both very young,she is'nt allowed to go over to her home but she knows him and has contact with him at school I often see him huging her and i don't like it i want to tell him to never ever touch her and i am planing on telling my daughters teacher what i know about him and there family which comes from the parents mouth to me but part of me feels really guilty that i feel this way about the boy because he is just a boy but I see him as a huge threat probly because i was sexaully abused and am feel very strongly about making sure that my kids never go through it but all i can see is threats everywhere to them she got in my bed tonight and screamed "no" she was just dreaming but i could sleep im just so worried something has already happend if that is the case i think i would have a nervous break down i consiter my self a pro active parent and talk to my kids allot about no one ever touching them but i still think that something will happen one time when i saw him huging her she tried to push him off but did'nt know what to do i told her that if she did'nt want him huging her she did'nt have to let him and to tell him to go away but she is only 5 and very affectionate and loving her nautre is to hug back even though i could tell it made her uncomtable im afraid to tell him anything but i think i should have at that moment i also feel bad for him because he is not all there in a large part to do with his abuse it is hard to know what to do and i want to do everything right even though im sure i don't im not even sure if this is the right web site to bring this up but thought id give it a try i have never ever done this before but i could'nt sleep and thought it might help

October 14, 2008
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Hi Breanna,

Why do you plan to tell your daughter's teacher about this boy and his family?

I think you are right that you are seeing threats everywhere because of what has happened to you.

It's normal for a 5 year old to have nightmares, it's not a sign of sexual abuse. I think it's good you don't let your daughter go over the house if you have reservations about this boy. I think your daughter is well protected.

You are a good mom and you are overwhelmed with fear from your past. Do you have a therapist?

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