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child of a disrupted family
March 9, 2006
5:59 pm
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Hello, I have a few quiestions from everyone? My parents have been alcoholics my whole life, Last year they had been sober for four years, I kind of got used to the perfect picture of a perfect family and then my father started drinking again and my mother soon there after and then they began to get in to much worse stuff, I have always tried to help them, it feels like I should be the one to save them to show them theres a light at the end of the tunnel! I get them cash advances everymonth, I always check on them...when they want something there really nice and then when they don't there really rude and distant..When I look at them it seems as though there dead there cheek bones are more visable there skin tone is more pale...I feel discusted and sick and sad when I look at them and then I find the meanest words to through at them cause I feel as if everything I say and do for them means nothing...now were not talkin, I don't know how to handle them, when i'm nice or mean either way I still leave unsatisfied and depressed I am everything I read about a codependent but what should I do. I'm only 22 but I feel more like 30...please give info thanks

March 9, 2006
6:39 pm
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Hello Bear,

Have you tried al-anon? There are support groups in almost every area. What you're dealing with is so hard. You don't have to go it alone.

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