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Changing Patterns
July 22, 2005
8:06 pm
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I'm new to this board, just joined. I ended a 10 year relationship just recently. We broke up in February for his repeated cheating but have been not totally letting go. I have made the decision to cut him loose and now just need to stay strong.

I never really realized what codependency is until recently. I have been controlling and picked a needy partner with lots of issues.

Now I just need to learn how to change that pattern.

My name comes from the saying, "Fall 7 times, get up 8".

July 22, 2005
8:43 pm
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Hi there,

Welcome to this site. Have you tried Coda meetings? You may click on coda.org to find out many of their meetings and the ones situated right in your district.

Also you many benefit from purchasing "Codependent no more" by Melody Beattie.

Changing a pattern is possible though it can be a process. However, if you persevere, you will achieve success ultimately.

Hang in there honey, this is the perfect place to learn and grow. There are so many warm, wise and wonderful people on this site!

~Love, RAS~

July 22, 2005
8:58 pm
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welcome. I think you will find some peace here in knowing that there are others that are in your shoes. My story sounds like yours. Even the length of time involved. Come here often for strength and love.

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