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Caught wife cheating on me.. But, not like what you think!! What should i do
December 30, 2005
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i am being serious, clean the dog.
i'm afraid most men i know would probably kill the dog. but the dog isn't the problem. everytime he looks at his furry pal, he probably feels sick.

December 30, 2005
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shaney, i assumed u were talking to me
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December 30, 2005
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Hi lost - no not necessarily, although your post did make me laugh at first. It's not my place to scold anyone, for sure, but I just don't want people to be scared away if what they're writing is serious. I sometimes second guess whether some of the threads are serious or not, but feel that it's best to assume that they are, rather than hurt someone's feelings. I've done that before, I guess that's why I'm sensitive to it.

December 30, 2005
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mammac Thankyou

Please talk to us when you have to say something.

This is a Serious thing that is cropping up on the internet and way to easy to bump into.

Your sad discovery has happened before. I can know of a guy and a young lady ( Not together) that have done something like this and back then most people never hear of it or at least spoke of it.

You will find resources. They are out there for people.

This is not the least bit funny. I know I caught someone one time and they got the jump on me with a girl I liked. Imagine how that felt to hear my would be date was out with this guy the every moment I heard he got to her first and I didnt know where they went.

December 30, 2005
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a teacher was arrested here a few years ago for the very same thing.

December 30, 2005
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and i have heard rumors of beastiality going on at the cock fights in several states

December 30, 2005
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yeah, I bet..... cock fights ;o)

December 30, 2005
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rooster fights. very popular in the southern states. big time gambling involved. thousands of dollars change hands. is illegal in most states now, but it still goes on. just went to court to make a neighbor get rid of seventy two roosters he had staked on his half acre property. very annoying, twenty four, seven listening to crowing....

u can look it up on internet. had a big bust in north georgia last year i think,and alot of law was involved.
in the fighting that is.

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December 30, 2005
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but it goes on all the time on private farms and such. i heard a neighbor talking about women with dogs at one of the fights. it was for show to entertain the participants. and i heard about a prostitute hired to use a chicken in ways i can only imagine for entertainment

December 30, 2005
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Hi Doobie,

What a painful discovery after seven years of marriage friend. I'm so sorry. You have my empathies on so many levels…

I heard the confusion and sadness in your post and certainly I would feel the same way.

With those that said confront her, I completely agree. But, that’s where I get lost.

Do you stress the continued infidelity? Do you stress the bestiality? Which is really the bigger infraction? You’ve probably privately grappled over this. Again, I’m sorry.

Even if I decided to forgive my mate for the infidelity, I think there would remain the question of respect.

I'd need to ask myself, can I stay in this relationship and still respect him as an equal? If the answer were no, I wouldn’t pursue the couples counseling, or relationship repair because it’s not fair to either of you.

Buck up friend, in the grand scheme of things, even too is a lesson of some sort.

December 31, 2005
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hbdude:

What does any of this have to do w/ growing up on a farm.

I want to second what Shaney said... Doobie's second line to his post is..."This is not a joke, and I will take your comments very serious."

Let us not lose perspective as to what our poster needs and is asking for. I know it is easy to make jokes, but he has made a request that we be serious. Let's respect his wishes please. (and no, this is not directed to any one individual).

December 31, 2005
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hey mama, where have u beentonight?

i just don't want him to take this out on the dog. that would be pitiful. (it would be easier than directing his rage and hurt where it belongs, right on her)

December 31, 2005
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doobie, no psyhciatrist worth a damn is going to think u are nuts for talking about what is going on. this have to be very traumatic for u. i myself, think it is very sick to do what she did. but that is my opinion. how do u feel? are u hurt?
in shock? betrayed? could u forgive her? how does she feel about this? is she apologetic? shows remorse? is she sick? how do u feel about the dog. if u can't get over it, then for his sake , find another home for him.

December 31, 2005
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i just think doobie in my own head how gross is this -counseling would be a plus but i dont think u have to divorce her i guess it would depend on what she did with the dogg iam sorry this kinda grosses me out but i will not be judgemental i hope u are okay and we are all here if u need us hugs 2 u chloeysmomma

December 31, 2005
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I observe that a single post has generated 38 posts up until now, none of which have been responded to by the original poster. I also notice that I have never heard of this poster until I read this thread.

December 31, 2005
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I am just a little cautious about controversial or spectacular posts since old whatsisname came and went.

January 1, 2006
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WD,

Don't you think the because the subject is outrageous might be the rationale why so many people responded?

Maybe the poster will never come back for whatever reason, maybe it was a joke. So...? That is his or her problem.

What if it is not a joke? Should I ignore it, and pretend it doesn't exist because it is too bizarre? Or you don't believe that things like that do actually happen?

I can speak only for myself, but I suspect that many others also had this feeling of oddity around this issue. But I am not passing a judgment about the possibility of the situation described by the poster being the truth or fiction. I act in a good faith, trusting that someone really needs support. The rest is not my concern.

February 16, 2006
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Did u talk to her about it?

February 17, 2006
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I would probably talk with your wife first, to get her view on the whole thing. That would be my advice for the time being.Good luck. Keep us posted.You must be in shock! Talk with us whenever you need to.

February 17, 2006
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Your wife has a major problem, hon, and so do you! I strongly advise counseling. Try talking her into going to a marriage counselor first, but if that doesn't work, go it alone. You poor thing, you must be in severe shock!! You cannot allow this to go on in silence!!! You must be pro-active!!! Good luck to you and update us please!

February 17, 2006
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Hi Doobie,

Has anything changed since December 29th when you initially posted on this subject?

I'm interested in hearing what was your course of action was and what resulted.

You still have my empathy and support friend.

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