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can't make a choice !
April 19, 2001
7:31 am
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i am new to this place & will be happy if i could get some help. Freinds i am in a conflicting situation i am not able to make a choice between two girls. One girl is very outroward, smart & intelligent, whereas the other girl is very shy & introward. i like the outroward girl as i too share the same nature, she is very understanding & of a possitive attitude, but the thing is that i have a less physical attraction towawrds her. whenever i am with her, i feel that we are very much compatible, as the way of our thinking & thoughts match with each other. the second girl is goodlooking then the first one, but she has a reserved kind of nature & lack smartness. i just don't know what to do, Both of them like me & are interested in me. Please help me out of this situation i am really confused.

i know that i have to take a decision of my own, but any advice from the readers will certainly be helpful.

April 19, 2001
12:00 pm
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hi michael,
I don't know if it is the same for men. I feel that a good part of the physical attraction that I feel for a man is happening in my *head* and not in my *eyes*. For me *looks* wold never outweigh *character* or *understanding each other* or *smartness*. It's different when I'm physically repelled by some attributes of someone.

But first you should question yourself again what it really is that attracts you. What we *see* is already filtered by how we feel about things. So I guess there might be other things except the looks that make one girl seem *sexier* to you than the other. Maybe as simple as: the introvert girl may seem less *frightening* 🙂

April 19, 2001
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Don't know how old you are, but why rush things? Gosh, we need to take more time before we get into these one on one relationships. WE get into trouble later on, because we get to deep to fast. It takes time to learn truly understand who another person is. Read the threads, and you will discover that the majority of problems here are due to decisions made to quickly, people putting all their eggs in one basket before they knew if the basket had a hole in it. Early sexual involvement that has caused trauma that doesn't evidence its self for months or years. Take your time dating is a mate selection process that should not be rushed, see them both, see a third, looks are not everything, and usually aren't much in the long run, its the complete package, including their family of origin. So chill on the choice thing, and if they pressure you, DUH its a clue!!!

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