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Cannot Understand Own Feelings
March 22, 2001
11:32 pm
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Sometime I find it hard to understand my own feelings. At times I can be rather positive about life, overcoming lots of obstacles & hardships. At times, I just lost control. Not to sure whrther is it due to PMS???

March 23, 2001
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Life sucks!!! everyone who are supposed to be my next of kins are taking me as a victim. my mum ( not real mother ) my husband ( unfaithful / irresponsible ) now my daughter!!!

She is not interested in her study at all!!! Failed in her primary One & two.now in her primary three she is not working hard. all she know is when will I bring her out shopping , buy her toys & cloths. at home she will watch tv all the time I have never seen her automatically take out her home work to do!!!

I always asked myself a question " What have I done wrong to have this kind of family??? I tried to be nice to them but they all take advantage of me. I am the one who has to work for the family, but they never do their part of duties.

No matter how possitive I take life they are always causing disruption.

Sometime I just feel like leaving this world! I used to think that my daughter is the only person I live for in my life but as she grows & I see her way of taking study so lightly, I am devasted. Pardon me of my poor spelling and writing because I am not educated.

I just hope when the time is right.............I am going to leave this world...............I just hope I will leave peacefully.

March 23, 2001
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Maybe because you try so hard to be nice to them. It's easy for a mom especially to be taken advantage of.

Live life for you and the happiness of your family will follow. They will be happy because YOU are happy.

March 23, 2001
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Cici, thanks for the words 🙂 it's just the "bad" day which I am weak emotionally.

Well, I have been very strong despite all the "misfortune" in my life. Yes, I am also seen as strong, possitive and bubbly person in the eyes of others & my family. But somehow, I just feel that they are taking advantage of me.

I have read in one of the thread that you know about buddhism. I have also study the basis of Buddhism & the teaching of Buddha. It has helped me to take things easy and lots more. But sometimes it's just "one" of those "bad" days.

Well, like to share this quote with you if you happen to read this thread again.

" Let it goes and you will be free "

Thanks for listening & replying.
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March 27, 2001
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Hello,lost soul Think about it when we say we are having a bad day most of the day wasnt really that bad. We sleep eight hours of it, work part of it. The hour or two that was bad is what we dwell on. Next time you have a bad day take one good thing from it dwell on it and see if you don' t feel better. t4c

March 27, 2001
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lost soul?
well is it pmt?
do u feel like this around that time?
i wonder too is it pmt with me sometimes. but i think there is a difference, when its always there, the feelings.
may be you should try to be self assertive, start giving to yourself, start worring about yourself. you don't have to be selfish, just put yourself in the picture, give yourself a better part to play. just a suggestion.
take care.

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