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can you love someone you don't trust?
October 9, 1999
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berlie
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October 9, 1999
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no

October 9, 1999
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Well I'm not a pro at this, but sometimes I think you can love someone you don't trust, but I'm not saying it's healthy.
I think most of us here have or do love someone we didn't or don't trust, but the underlying question should be is, why do we love someone we don't trust. We are not recieving the love and respect that we deserve. So why do we put ourselves through this and I think the answer is that love has blinded our minds and we can't think clearly.
So my answer is yes, you can love someone you don't trust, but it's not healthy and don't expect to have love returned.

October 9, 1999
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yes you can but not fully and completely and you have to ask yourself the ultimate question WHY? Why do you love someone you cant trust? Because you dont feel you deserve the love of someone you trust. Then we need to create a new self identity that DESERVES to love someone TRUSTWORTHY.
You ARE worth it Berlie. Talk more girl, you will get more..lol

October 11, 1999
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I think I may have sounded a bit harsh in my last line of previous posting. I'll try again, lol!
Yes you can "love" someone you don't trust, but the "love" you feel is coming from looking through rose colored glasses. Loving someone you don't trust is like eating a sugar coated cerial...it's not as good once you take away the sugar coating. Deeper meaning to that is you've built a wall around your heart to cover the real truth. Once you break away the wall from your heart, you will see the true feelings you've hidden from yourself.
Hope my answer was easier to understand, but then again, I'm not easy to understand, LOL!

October 11, 1999
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Great answer Daizy!!!! Make perfect sense:):):)

October 11, 1999
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Can you love someone you don't trust? Why not?

The real question is if you want to love this person? Why don't you trust him/her? Truly you can't be happy without trust.

~JC

October 12, 1999
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I read this wonderful short story by ayn rand. The character was in love with her next door nieghbor. She imagined him to be her perfect image, the man of her dreams. she went out of her way not to ever meet him because she didn't think he would live up to her dream. She was content to love this image, the image in her next door neighbor. In the story, she was happy and did not feel alone because by not meeting him, he could be her dream.
Personally, i think lust only last so long before its important to touch base and peer inside anothers soul.

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