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can men and women just be friends?
August 22, 2001
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mel2
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Hey Cracker,

Do you think you're girlfriend would be hurt if she knew the sunglasses thing?

August 22, 2001
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I wasnot really sure where to post this but you guys seem to be "cool" about sexual stuff. This is seriuos and personal. Its embarrassing what i am about to say! I am a very shy male. I am 22 years old. I am still a virgin and have never had sex of any kind. I have never been with a girl naked or did anything other than kiss. I am decent looking but just very shy. Girls and women scare me because i always think I am going to screw up and do something that will make them hate me! Anyway, this might be sounding weird or perverted but I need to tell someone. I found afew counseling sites on Yahoo and this looked like the best one. I went to see a doctor the other day. It turned out it was a woman doctor. She was decent looking and had very nice slender legs. I couldn't help but notice. Everything was fine. She took my weight. Made me do some breathing and did eye and nose check. Then I had to take off ALL my clothes and slip into one of those skirt thingies. and she had to feel and massage my testicles for lumps and put her finger up in my anus for standard prodedures. I can only blush when I mention what happened next. I got an erection. The full blown kind. The doctor saw it as she did the procedures but I am only guessing she tried to disregard it. I felt like disappearing and I felt so low and disgusting but its not like I could really help it. She is basically the first woman to have ever touched me and seen me naked and I got very aroused by that. She was an attractive woman. Now I don't think I can ever go see her ever again because she'll know me as the kid with the boner. That kills me!!! Do doctors tell each other about this kind of thing or do they the office people about this? There is a cute girl up in the front and I could never see her again if she heard about this. In fact I can never be seen at this clinic EVER AGAIN!!!I am soooooooo embarrassed and am afraid I'll never be able to see a doctor again. I didn't ask for a woman! They assisgned me to her! Is this weird? Am I a disgusting sex offender for this?! HELP! And insight would be greatly appreciated.

August 22, 2001
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How does a 22 yr old male come up with a handle named Bunnyhurt? Is this for real or what? First of all, the proceedure you described, what was it for? I think what you described is either inappropriate, or you have a vivid imagination.
Mel2, thanks for your kind words. I think you are doing great yourself, with the way you are handling yourself. Congrats to you and keep up the great work. I will be following you along your way.......Randy

August 23, 2001
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and why do you refer to yourself as a kid.... and what you did is perfectly normal for any man virgin or not....I am sure if more people admited it there would not be enough room in here for all the posts of embarassing things that happen in the doctors office... and about them talking in the office I will tell you the truth yes most likely she told some one.... BUT and I work in the medical field... so I know... all though it is wrong we do share little things like that with each other... we don't however or at least I never ever judge or even think about it again. that is apart of nature... things happen if they are professional you will never know if they talked about it or not.....

August 23, 2001
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well ammend that sorry guys I should have said that because they are human it will most likely be repeated. If they were professional they would not have told it in the first place.any way with any decorum (is that the word) you will never know if they talked about you or not... it is like a dentist would not gag or act stupid if he got a patient that had bad breath or a gynecologist (sp) well you get the picture... and really what is so bad about that are you human and healthy. some men aget a rise out of the jc penny panty section well you can ask craker where and when he gets unexpected 😉 stiffy
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August 23, 2001
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bunnyhunt,

actually what you described is very common, which is why the doctor probably didn't mention anything. My Mom is a nurse, and she has said that this has happened quite a few times when se was doing a digital examination of the prostate.

Actually, the male erectile response is usually not something that you can control.

Don't worry about being a virgin. although I've had my share of partners, I feel that sex with someone you love is a thousand times more exciting and wonderful than just sex.

August 29, 2001
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Can men and women be "just" friends. Listen to Ladeska, she knows the deal. I have always had male friends, but there is a lot of game playing going on. They are like "practice" boyfriends to me. I didn't care if they were in relationship. If you are feeling something weird about the connection, it is your emotional radar in tune to "what's really going on". Every woman likes the idea of having a little "power" over a man, saying we are just friends, then beckoning him when you "need" him is such a
"rush".
Another tidbit, a pastor of a very young congregation once said , was right on the money. He forbade his women parishioners to seek counseling from the opposite sex ministers of the church. He told the women of the church to call the women ministers , with their problems and the men to call the men. Why? Because Sharing secrets, problems and a lot of "late night" crisis, breeds intimacy. It just does.
The pastor was just heading those hormones off at the pass.
BTW- Cracker , I know you, you are one of my male friends. Right down, to calling women Betties. For women who don't like what he is saying, listen, with all respect to Ranmar1, lots of men really do think the way Cracker does, they just never tell women. But my male freinds tell me, this stuff all the time.
P.S. Cracker, you are right , women are terribly attracted to your type because the masculinity, is so raw and undeniable, But believe this, the women who value themselves (Ladeska does a good job of describing the type I refer to) know you are fleeting, sometimes merely eye-candy, not someone to take home to momma( maybe show off to the girls).But definitely not one to take seriously.

August 29, 2001
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Can men and women be "just" friends. Listen to Ladeska, she knows the deal. I have always had male friends, but there is a lot of game playing going on. They are like "practice" boyfriends to me. I didn't care if they were in relationship. If you are feeling something weird about the connection, it is your emotional radar in tune to "what's really going on". Every woman likes the idea of having a little "power" over a man, saying we are just friends, then beckoning him when you "need" him is such a
"rush".
Another tidbit, a pastor of a very young congregation once said , was right on the money. He forbade his women parishioners to seek counseling from the opposite sex ministers of the church. He told the women of the church to call the women ministers , with their problems and the men to call the men. Why? Because Sharing secrets, problems and a lot of "late night" crisis, breeds intimacy. It just does.
The pastor was just heading those hormones off at the pass.
BTW- Cracker , I know you, you are one of my male friends. Right down, to calling women Betties. For women who don't like what he is saying, listen, with all respect to Ranmar1, lots of men really do think the way Cracker does, they just never tell women. But my male freinds tell me, this stuff all the time.
P.S. Cracker, you are right , women are terribly attracted to your type because the masculinity, is so raw and undeniable, But believe this, the women who value themselves (Ladeska does a good job of describing the type I refer to) know you are fleeting, sometimes merely eye-candy, not someone to take home to momma( maybe show off to the girls).But definitely not one to take seriously.

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