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Can I Vent??? (read only if you have patience or a strong constitution)
May 23, 2005
9:38 pm
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InPainZHT
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mama,

I DO hold my head up high. How do I do this? I have learned I am strong enough to do what I need to do when I have to do it; in this instance, I drew a line in the sand and when she crossed it, I walked away.

She didn't make me leave this time; I walked away. I am the one that said "enough". She took him back THAT NIGHT; the friends that attacked her for wanton stupidity were chastized and dropped as friends, being told what I was.... that this fellow wasn't the horror that he in fact is.

She would have made an EXCELLENT minister of information in Orwell's "1984"; to wit, 'I'm sorry, your memory of the past is not accurate. Accept my new perverse twist on it."

Heh, not me. I remember.

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May 23, 2005
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Inpain,

just wanted you to know not all of us abused women are like your g/f.

I too shake my head. My husband was not as exteme but he was an abuser, and an abuser is an abuser is an abuser. I left. Never looked back. Been separated for 1 1/2 years before getting my divorced finalized exactly one year to the day (May 23). He now acts very courteous, offers money and supports his kids. He has a girlfriend. I treat him like crap. I am a total bitch to him for the way he treated me. I think he still hopes one day I will change my mind. I am not stupid, though. I see other women go back like yours and cannot understand, so it can only mean they have serious issues yet to work out that, for the time being, is beyond their control.

I worry about her kids, though.

And I am sorry that she hurt you like that.

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