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Camer!!!
June 30, 2004
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Hey between the board going down and not hearing from you I just want to know you are okay? If you are busy a quick response will do just want to know you are doing okay though..
Love Sherry

July 1, 2004
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Camer!! Are you still out there???
I miss you!!! 😉
Hugs!!!

July 1, 2004
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(((HI SMILES)))) i am still here!!! just betwn lost msgs on boards and yesterday i had to attend a funeral,
didn't have a chance to go on website.

Things in my life are looking really really good, i am happy and content with my life, and i am going to start choosing not to "worry" so much about things, i think I overworried myself about breaking up with Gregg and things did work out ok.

So how are things with your hubby and you having some space??? is it working out ok with you???

Lots of work to do today, will def. check back in later.

I missed talking with you too!!!

hugs, love and friendship, cheryl

July 1, 2004
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Hi Cheryl!! I feel much better now that I know you are doing okay and just busy!!! I know we all get busy..
Was the funeral someone you knew well or close to?
Well I know you are busy so I will wait until I get home to write more. I am kinda in a gloomy space. I go see my counselour today at lunch.. Will talk to you more about it later.. Gosh I didn't realize how much I enjoyed talking to you until you were gone and I couldn't get in touch with you.. 😉
Big smiles.. I am so glad you are doing well..
Big hugs, lots a love and friendship
Sherry 😉
I hope you have a great day!!!

July 1, 2004
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hi Sherry, thanks for all your kind words as always, yesterday I attended ta funeral for a friend of mine, he was 46 years old and died from scirossis of the liver (sp?)...he was so young, and left a wife, 2 daughters and 2 grandchildren. I have known him for 20 years but haven't seen him in years, but he was an important person in my life, and i had to attend the funeral.

Seems like things seem a lil' gloomy for you, I hope you are ok, and know that you will get thru this day, i am thinking of you and sending lots of hugs and prayers, good luck with the counselor.

After work, I am attending a function for a gal who is retiring, so i won't
be online till after 10pm e.s.t....so don't think I am ignoring you, but
i will be on later tonite, so drop me a line and let me know how things are, ok.

P.s...I am still waiting for a response from this websites coordinator on the issue of that you wrote a day or two ago, I will let you know what she says once they contact me.

(((((hugs, love, prayers, support and friendship))))))))))))) Cheryl

July 1, 2004
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CAMER- Just wanted to tell you that you give great support and advice- are you a counselor of some type or just a very insightful person- either way- you always seem to know what to say. It is very helpful. (By the way, I am a Cheryl too, but that is my first name, not what I go by)

July 1, 2004
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Hey Camer I am getting ready to leave work.. I know that you won't be on for awhile.. Things are looking better.. 😉
I will talk more tonight..
Love and hugs and friendship...
sherry

July 1, 2004
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hi sherry: how are you??? hope things are still looking ok. Just came home from the function after work, had a good time, ate way too much chinese food, but it was good!!!
Cant wait for this weekend, I am having about 5+ friends over 2morrow nite for chatting and dinner etc..and heading to the beach on Saturday, then to a block neighborhood party Saturday nite...then who knows what for Sunday.

This week has been so busy for me with the funeral, the work party and work and getting things done for me, I do always make sure to check into
this site though.

Have a great nite, and whenever you get the chance, please vent and talk with me about anything and esp. how you are doing!!!

nitey nite!!!!

hugs, love and friendship...cheryl

July 2, 2004
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Hi Sweetie.. Sorry I didn't write back last night.. It was busy.. Which was good.. The day turned out better than I thought it would.. My spirits are better for now..
Let's see I have been playing phone tag with my brother in Tenn.. since last Thursday well I called to talk to his wife last night thinking I'll find out whats going on with him.. I knew something was up.. Well her mom died on Tues.. So that's why we couldn't get a hold of each other.. Wow I knew something was wrong.. It amazes me how when something is going on with him and his family I know I just don't know what but know something ain't right ya know.. We have become so close even though we are so far away..
Anway I had my middle son last night so we picked up a few fireworks and he did smoke bombs then I cut his hair then we ordered and ate pizza.. Then we set off the rest of the fireworks.. I didn't even get any housework done yesterday.. But it was nice spending time with him.. 😉
Sorry I didn't write and I don't want to leave you wondering cause I know when I don't talk to you I hope all is well too!!!

Well it sounds like you have a great weekend planned!!! I think that's great!!! I hope you have fun.. and who knows what might come of it, in the dating department.. Not putting any expectations there but it is an open door..

I thank you sooo very much for your heart!!! It amazes me how much I have grown to care and think about you through out the day... I even talk to my counselour about you.. In talking to you I have been learning more about myself.. Like you say God puts people in our life for a reason..

I do want to tell you more about my situation.. I am at work now so I am typing fast.. Briefly I just feel like my husband gets onto me for having so many feelings and I start to feel like a burden like I always have something I am working through and am a bother more than a blessing.. My counselour gave me some good insight.. Of course when the time comes I guess well we will see then how it all turns out. I left here with the thought about the book "The Missing Piece" and how this circle had a missing piece and finally found it and it fit just right. Then over time the piece began to grow and did not fit in the missing part of the circle.. She said that I am growing and either my husband can grow with me or I will have to decide to shirk to fit with him and go backwards or keep growing even if he doesn't follow. I don't know if I am making any sense.. But it helped a lot and I will try and tell you more later.. Like I said trying to type really fast so I don't know how much sense I make..

Thanks for being such a great friend!!!
LOVE!!! HUGS!!! and Friendship!!!

I Hope you have fun and will check in off and on on the weekend..
Thanks for being such a great friend I really appreciate you!!!

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One more thing.. You seem to be pretty popular on this board latley.. Doesn't that feel good.. Just pointing out how you have a purpose and are needed and appreciated in abundance just here!! I can only imagine how it is in your day to day things.. See how wonderful you ARE!!!! 😉

July 2, 2004
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**smiles*** you are making me blush, thanks for the compliments. I am so glad for this website, and somehow I was brought to it, and somehow we built an internet connection thru it also, dealing with the coda issues, you feel like a "soul sister" to me!

I am glad things are going ok in your life, and never stop working on yourself, and YOU may think you always
have burdens, but maybe your husband doesn't think that, there is nothing wrong with working on you. Your hubby should be supporting you in everything you do in life, and making yourself a stronger person is a good thing. And Sherry, you have come far,
you have stayed sober for years, and you are working on yourself daily.
Life goes by so quickly, its so good to just enjoy the moment, cuz of course we cannot take back yesterday,
but we can live in good spirits today.
I seem happy today, a lil' down on myself with my low self esteem, my
hair looks like crap, this hot humid
weather makes it kink and look awful,
so I pulled it up, and it doesnt look that bad. I have to learn to take care of my hair for me, and I am more worrieed about what others will think.

**smiles** you are never ever alone,
we made a bond, thru God, I just
feel it and know it. And i want to
thank you for all of your support
and I am so glad that I get to chat with you daily, you seem like a better friend than some of my real life friends!!!

Back to work for me, lots to do,
having some friends over tonite so
if I don't get back on line tonite,
know that I will be ok, just entertaining, but I will for sure be
back on Saturday to say HI!

I wish you the best in everything you do!!!

hugs, love, prayers, friendship and all that good stuff!!!!
cheryl

July 2, 2004
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Thank you also I don't think I can say that often enough!!! I believe we always have each other also..
You have filled a space in my heart that belongs only to you.. And I am very grateful for you..

I was telling my couselour yesterday how I feel I connect with you and that even though we can ask each others advice it's not like we feel the other doesn't know anything about life..
Actually sometimes maybe we think to much.. I donno.. I feel like I do at times..

I don't know if you will get to read this until tomorrow.. I do hope you have a great time tonight..
I am looking forward to seeing my boys.. I have had one but like I told you before the other two have been with Dad because it's summer and I can't afford daycare for all of them.. So this will be the first weekend since end of May I have had all three of them.. I want to enjoy them and not worry so much about hubby this weekend.. God gave me children as a gift and I want to appreciate that gift!!!

I will be thinking of you even though we both will be busy off and on.. I will check in too!!!!
Lots of love
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July 2, 2004
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HI SMILES........i'm back, still at work, you are too funny when you mentioned "thinking too much"aaaaahhh that is so much me, always analyzing things and thinking every little word of a senctence to figure out what it means. We are so much alike!!! its great, cuz i look so forward to chatting with you, and I am so glad you have your counselor to help you every step of the way. I hope you have a wonderful time with your sons this weekend, enjoy every second of it!!! i'm sure they will keep you super busy, your children are a blessing!!!
back to work again for me, till next time we chat..........
((((hugs, love and friendship))))
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July 2, 2004
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Just wanted to tell ya'll bye for now- I'm off to go on vacation!!! I will check in when I return to work.
Take care!

July 2, 2004
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*smiles* just started another thread, for the group...but btwn you and me, i am livid!!!!! my friend just put our plans on hold so she can
fool around with her boyfriend!!! what ever happened to saying "no" and telling him she is busy...its the thread of *when friends/make and break plans*......I usually don't get this mad, but she planned this weekend 3 mos ago and now i get put on hold, she tells me she will be here and we will do this an that and now she puts "him" first!!!there is so much more to the story, but the guy she is with is such a jerk!! and she chases him. I guess i needed to vent, smiles, thanks for listening, hope all is well with your 3 sons, enjoy the weekend and have some fun, and hopefully you wont get too burned out!!! lol!!!
love, hugs and friendship!!! cheryl

July 3, 2004
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Hey Cheryl I wrote on your other thread!!!
I just want you to know I feel bad that I wasn't here when you were needing to talk.. I really thought you might not be back on here until today... But if all went as planned I guess you might not have been..

I was sooo tired last night and was excited to see my kiddos so I didn't get on here..

I am thinking of you and want to know how you are doing this morning..

Whatcha gonna do today????
How did it work out last night???
Hugs.. Do you forgive me for not being here last night??? 😉
Your friend
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July 3, 2004
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***SMILES*** thanks for your support and there is nothing to forgive you for!! you did nothing wrong, I got thru last nite, and had a great time,
another friend of mine came over and we hung out and had a blast..I think I just felt *abandoned* last nite, esp after all of the plans, my friend who showed up late (we talked)
and things are ok now. I do have to learn that I cannot control others
and if she changes plans then its rightfully up to me to do whatever I want with that time, and a good friend came over we talked and ate dinner and just chilled out. Thanks for all of your support, again I shouldn't have felt the way that I did, but I was so looking forward to
hanging out with good friends and of course the plans changed. Oh well, I still did have a great nite.

Just came back from the beach, me and
my friend went, we are meeting other girls later for a cookout and watching fireworks, it'll be fun.

Sherry, thanks for making me feel so special, you are a kind, sweet, caring person. Hope your day goes good today also, and have the best time with your children. Let me know how you are doing....only thing is
I may not be back online till *2morrow*, so don't fear if you don't hear from me today, will def. chekc in tomorrow.

Have a great day!!! hugs, love and friendship...Cheryl

July 3, 2004
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Cheryl thanks for letting me know you will be busy but I thought you would be.

That's what I was saying to you earlier though is I sensed you felt less than when that happened.. The reason I can so relate is I have been feeling abandoned most of my life and those feelings hit so close to home. That's why I said you still have every right to feel the way you did.. I deal with those feelings often.. I am glad to hear you had a blast after all.. And yes we are BBQing and doing fireworks so won't be on much until tomorrow either..
I do want to stress you had every right to feel the way you did.. How you handled your feelings is what is important.. Please don't feel you have a right to your feelings because you do!!!! I said!!! We all do....
Have a wonderful time tonight and I too will check in tomorrow...

Lots of love, hugs, friendship,and compassion!!!!!
YOu are terrific!!!!
Happy 4th of July..
I will still be thinking of you 😉

July 4, 2004
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*SMILES* how are you?? I had a blast last nite, went to a cookout, then went to see some fireworks then went to a chinese restaurant where there was a band playing, didn't get home till 2:15 am!! very tired, got lots of sleep, and had a blast last nite with about 6 of us.

Its about 85 degrees out now, I don't have any plans today, just to
take care of ME....yee haaa, going to lay out for a bit, then workout for an hour or so, then sit by the couch and veg out...I have 2morrow off too which is nice.

Most of my friends have plans 2day and 2morrow, not me, but that is ok, I want to enjoy my own company and
just do whatever.

Smiles, how are things going with your hubby??? good I hope, and thanks again for all your support, and yes, I think I had every right to be upset friday nite, and I was, I felt the feelings for a while then let them go, now I am ok.

You are an inspiration in my life, thank you for being you and always saying the right things to me, it helps.

Enjoy your day with your kids!!!! will chekc back later!!!

hugs, love, friendship and support!

Cheryl

July 4, 2004
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HI Cheryl,
I am so very thakful for you also.. More than I can put into words.. Gosh so much is going on with hubby... I want to share but more on a personal level did you ever hear from the SC?

I am glad you had fun.. We all had fun last night too!!! Then I got up late we all did then made bacon, eggs,and toast..

I did want to check in.. I have tomorrow off too!!! So we can talk tomorrow as well unless you have plans.. that come up. I do need to get food but I am taking the kiddos back this evening... Dad is going to take them to a display also.. We did have a lot of fun..

I am thinking of you lots!!! Thanks for checking in.. I am just so frustrated right now..But it isn't a good time to write so I thought I would check in and see how your night went.. As I am always wondering how you are.. It is weird.. I don't normallly connect with others on-line like this but I feel drawn to you...

I will check in later.. So you gonna do some sun bathing since the weather is so nice????

Lots of love and hugs and friendship always!!!!!

July 4, 2004
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hi Sherry, its sooooo hot outside i had to come in to take a break, i was sweating bullets out there.

I am telling you, we somehow made a
"soul sister" connection thru God, I beleive that somehow you (we) reach out and you find a friend that you
"connect" with, and God made that happen, and I do think things happen for a reason.

Give yourself a big (((hug))) from me, knowing that you are fustrated, hope it helps, know that things will not always be this way, feel your feelings and then try to think of good things, you are a good person,
you have 3 wonderful kids, and I want you to enjoy life and yourself too!

I am going to write again to the SC again and see if i can get some feedback, will let you know what happens.

I don't have any plans today whick is so nice, i can do whatever and relax and I am in a really good mood right now, sun is shining, my dogs are happy, I am alone today and I am
happy too, my mind is taking a break
and just enjoying today.

Going back outside for a bit, still
have to workout later and run some errands.

Will chat later, till then be good to you!!!!

hugs, love and friendship
your friend in Massachusetts

July 4, 2004
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HI SMILES.....sc on vaca till july 22nd!!

ok so without me giving away all of my identity to you, i will give you
a choice of email addys to check out
so hopefully i can respond back to you. I have service with either
AOL, YAHOO OR HOTMAIL and the name
i go under is camunki, so hopefully if you can piece the above info. together we can chat later....i don't want to go against rules, and I know this site is anonymous...pick the right isp and we can chat, ok!!
hugs, love and friendship...camer

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Hey there !!!!
I only have Yahoo used to have MSN but won't let me download it for some reason... Anyway I have added you I think.. Sent an off line message so we will see if it works...
Thanks so much!!!
I don't want to go against any rules either... Just wanted to talk to you about something like I said a little more personal.. I don't know if I will be back on tonight.. I am going to call it an early evening..
But will be here for sure in the morning..

I hope you are still in good spirits and enjoying your time... 😉

Lots of love, lots of hugs, lots of friendship...

Sherry 😉

July 5, 2004
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HI SMILES, if you piece together the past few [email protected]
and send it to the 3rd one i had listed from my previous message i should get the email...hint hint....hotmail.com

gosh, i dont want to get us in trouble...we may not be able to
IM eachother, but you sure can send me an eamil to my personal addy.

hope to hear from you soon...

love, hugs and friendship 🙂 cheryl

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Hey there!!! Boy it's raining like cats and dogs here!!!

It is really dark too!!! What about there?

I need to motivate and get my house in order today.. I haven't worried about it as much since I had an extra day off.. Horrible huh? Any reason to procrastinate... he he

So what are you up to today?

I know you said you get the day off..

Well I thought I would check in and see whatcha doing...;-)

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