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cactus...and anyone else MIA today...how are you?
November 5, 2004
12:44 am
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Hey Cactus..not much heard from you today...you ok?

i am ok. day 1 of no contact again.....oh well..i had a happy day.....it will be happier when i get a job...but that shouldnt be too long..

just missed you...Starry

November 5, 2004
8:36 am
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Hi Starry,
I wasn't sure you could get to a computer I read where your temp job was over. I'm sure you'll get another one. How are you today? How's the heart.

-Cactus

November 5, 2004
1:47 pm
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Hey babe...

i am good. been looking for a house...so my mind and heart have been on other things.

i still upset about his calling me...totally threw me for a loop, but i am trying to focus on my mental health.

any good plans for the weekend?
how are you feeling since her email?
you are so strong!

November 5, 2004
5:11 pm
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Starry,
Hey little one you do realize the power has shifted to you. Don't you? Anytime they call for whatever silly-ass reason something must be eating at them. If I were you I wouldn't at all be think about calling him he'll rear his head again just you wait and see. But this time you're going to be ready you're going to be calm, cool and collected. You're going to say what you need to say in your calmest (under control) tone imaginable and you're going to get some closure so you can move on.

So from now until he calls again work on what you need to say to make yourself good with finally ending this thing. Write down your feelings and always keep it on your person so when you have an opportunity to confront him you won't get flustered.

As a matter of fact write down what you will tell him and we'll critique it for you. Remember the more emotional laden words and phrases you use the more you stay hooked into the dysfunction that was the relationship. What do you think.

I wish Christine would write back I think I might have offended her with my last post but I would want someone like you or her to point out when I was doing something that wyou felt jeapordized my recovery. I hope she's okay. Write back soon I'll be leaving for the weekend in a little while.

-Cactus

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