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Bubishi's Peace
February 17, 2005
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Hey kids!

I haven't had the chance to say hello the last fews days. Traveling makes things tough for me. I always bring my laptop with, but I never seem to take it out of my briefcase while in my hotel room.

Anyway, I've been keeping up on the posts and I have two things to say.

1) Try to continue your daily routines with or without this girl being a part of them, Bubishi. You are not that invested yet, and she is for sure soaking in the Great night you two had. Like I said in an earlier post. You and I are the type of guys that can give and give and give. Then we want to give some more. When that happens, we might just expect some things that we shouldn't and we overwhelm the one we are giving the attention to. We are a rare breed, brother. It's gonna take finding a real special woman to be able to soak in our romantic style. I think this girl has what it takes. it just might take her a little while to understand it. Chances are she thinks you are too good to be true. Stay cool, brother. She will come around and start contacting you. Give her a reason to search you out. Remember, you have to create some mystique so she wonders what's going on in your mind.

2) Don't you and Camer and Amanda and Momma and anyone else even think about entering that hot tub without me!!!! I LOVE HOT TUBS!!!!!!!

Have a Great night all. I'm gonna "hit the sack" shortly, but I'll be logging on again tomorrow at about 6:30AM central time.

Eternal

February 17, 2005
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glad to have you back Eternal...and I am on day #3 no contact, and feeling mighty fine in this here valley...i wish you didn't go to sleep, now I don't have anyone to give a nice hot oil massage to!!!
well maybe 2morrow!!!

sweet dreams!!! xxoo Camer

February 17, 2005
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Oooh, oooh, oooh, ME ME I want a hot oil massage. Nothing like relaxing in the valley and getting a hot oil rub down. Where do you start, and can I flip over???????

~Bubishi~
~The Peaceful Warrior~

February 17, 2005
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Oh man I could sure use that hot oil massage too!!! My brain even hurts from all this essay writing!!!!

How is everyone? I am trying to get here more often but it seems to happen a little at a time. But, hooray!!! I am off for 4 days and i think a massage and a hot tub would be great!!! Eternal, you can't go to sleep yet!

February 18, 2005
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Damn! I missed out on the massage! Thats what I get for going to bed too early. I hope that wasn't just a one night affair.

Camer, you mentioned it was day three on the no contact with the ex. It gets easier after a while. Just focusing on simple fantasies like these help put your mind in another place, even if only for a while. I know it must be tough to have made this decision because of two issues you have your b/f, but they are both life changing issues.

My mom is kind of seeing a guy who works alot of overtime (not because he has to, but because he can), and he is totally under his daughter's thumb. She is trying to decide where the relationship is going. It's not going anywhere as long as he chooses those two things over my mom constantly. She has to make a choice too. She is older, but still has desires to date and spend quality time. She will just find herself frustrated over and over. I see the same thing happening in your situation.

Like Bubishi said...there has got to be someone out there for each of us who can give and receive equally.

Your man is out there, sweetheart. Be patient and I'm sure he will find you.

Eternal

February 18, 2005
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aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh you all make me laugh so much!!!!! and just having our lil' fun here in the valley does lighten up my real life!! i am going on day #4, and I am ok, I believe in myself and am not going to settle!!

Its funny Eternal how you mentioned your moms new BF, dealing with the same issues...I wish her luck...and its true, I refuse to let my ex's issues "bother" me, i'd rather just get out and find someone who has the same values as me. And i did it, and I am ok!!

Workin...off for 4 days!!you go girl!! any you have yourself some fun, fun, fun!!!

Bubi, i haven't forgotton you!!! hmmmmmmm, ok i am waving that bottle of oil and ready to give a nice relaxing massage to the first one who gets over here!!!

love to all!! Camer

February 18, 2005
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Im on my way Camer!!!!

February 18, 2005
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Hell, I'm already here. Let's get that oil a rubbin'!!!! Only thing is, I couldn't find a towel to wear so I'm going to have to drape this little washcloth over my.........

February 18, 2005
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You Guy's know what, One of these days, we should have like a big reunion in some Holiday Inn in some part of the country. Can you imagine, a bunch of screwed up people like us gathering and raising hell. It'd be kinda crazy huh????? I wonder if it would totally destroy the site and the Valley as we know it???

~Bubishi~
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February 18, 2005
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what.........whadda ya mean "screwed up people" huh, i thought I was normal!!! yeah right!!!! That would be soooo cool, all of us meeting, we would have a blast & a half........You guys are too funny!!!

Ok, i am still holding this bottle of oil in my hand........and Bubi, maybe we should cover you up a lil bit more.... a lil' washcloth doesn't seem to do the trick, for you my friend, we may have to get a towel..he he he

February 18, 2005
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Camer,
Oh hell, Only reason I got the washcloth was to prevent sunburn anyway. Just jump up here and we could oil each other up with our naked bodies. Squirt it on both of us and just rub together. Oh, that might lead to something else though...

~Bubishi~
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February 18, 2005
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Come on guys...I'm watching!!!! Or maybe I could join in!

This is nuts!!!!!!!!! But I'm luvin' every minute of it! Bub, it would be nice to find out who we are all talking to here. It's kind of a bummer we can't get know ereyone here better.

Eternal

February 18, 2005
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Hey Amanda,
Are you out there Honey??? I've been missing you and wondering if you're OK. (((SNUGGLES)))

~Bubishi~
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February 19, 2005
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Wow!

What a spelling f-up! I meant to type that it would be nice to get to know everyone better.

I'll have to slow down with the brewski's next time!

Eternal

February 19, 2005
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Can I join in too?(Blushing)

February 19, 2005
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Jewel,
Are you asking if you can join in the oil rub-down??? Sure, you're more then welcome to join in.

~Bubishi~
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February 19, 2005
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I'm baaaaaack......and yes Eternal it would be nice to get to know "ereyone" here!!! lol...you are too funny!!!

I guess anyone can join in our oil massages, hmmmm, it could get a lil' outta control though, but hey it's all in fun!!

I am on day #5 now, and i feel good!!!

Now make me feel better and give me a massage, Eternal??? Bubi??? anyone!!!

((camer))

February 19, 2005
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Hey Camer,
Turn your sexy tush over and I'll get to rubbin'!!!!!!

Day 5, how does it feel?? Are you still missing him??

~B~

February 19, 2005
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mmmmmmm, mmmmmmmm, good!!! Bubi, you sexy lil' devil you!!!

Day #5 and I feel great, it is so weird how I feel, I cried so much the first 2 days and then overwhelmingly became so strong, maybe with my beliefs that I did do the right thing....and I feel great. I only knew him for 6 mos...even so, i was questioning about him in the past, so i did have my doubts..I guess I was in denial. I think, posting here, knowing I am not alone, being with good friends, and just praying alot & doing the right things keeps me balanced and focused.

I do miss him, parts of him, he was always a nice guy but the things that bothered me were just too much for me to "let go of" and I knew that I would not settle. I am glad I am so much stronger now, I'd rather end a relationship at 6 months than at 6 years (and hoping it changes)..its just alot easier.

So I am here tonite in the valley, waiting for my rubbin'!!!!! oooh laa laaa

love ya!
Camer

February 19, 2005
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Well kids,

The oil is heated up and ready to be rubbed on. I swear I feel ready to go meet someone and have some fun. For the last few weeks I have felt this urge to get together with a girl for a fun night out. Even if its just dinner and some drinks.

I have been hanging out with my guy friends the last 5 months. I fell like it is time for me to find a female friend to have some fun with. I was thinking of getting on the Yahoo personal ads. I have been looking through them and have found a couple ladies that seem to be looking for the same thing I am.

Who knows? I guess you never know unless you try, right? I don't have a digital camera so I'll have to have a friend take some pictures of me so I can post them on the site.

I'll let you know what happens. I probably won't do anything until next week sometime.

Until then, let's get these clothes off and start rubbing each other down with that hot oil! Wow that feels good!

Eternal

February 19, 2005
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well, Eternal, since you are practically naked now....I have my Digital camera ready for some pictures...and I promise to keep them
conservative!!! and I'll only take pictures of that wonderful face of yours, then you can send them into Yahoo, and go get 'em!!!!

Ok, oil rub time for me!!!
woo hoo!

February 19, 2005
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Hey Guys,
Well, My new lady friend gave me the "You're wonderful but I want to be friends speech" Another kick in the dirt for old Bubishi. I just wish I wouldn't wear my heart on my sleeve like this. I won't give up though. There has gotta be a girl out there that feels such passion that she'd jump in the river for me and wants to run away forever. I'm still in the Valley, But I'm here with a Broken Heart tonight.

~B~ :o(

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awwww Bubi, i was going to ask you too, how things were going....so she just wants to be friends...bummer, but you know what, that's her issue/reason for doing that, who knows, maybe she has never been treated so kind, gentle, nice b4 and is not used to a nice guy like you. Her loss!!!! Keep your head up, there are so many other women out there, you do have a heart of gold and someday you will find a great gal for yourself!!! sorry you are feeling broken hearted ((((here is a big ol' hug for you)))))) xxoo Camer

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Thanks Camer,
You're a SweetHeart. Ya know, If we were close, I'd take you out to help you get over your guy and we could comfort each other and we could have dinner and dancing or something real fun like bowling or a movie.

~B~

February 19, 2005
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Hey bub! Keep your chin up there sweetheart! We love you in the valley and there really is enough to do here if you try.

We are all broken tonight in the love department so the valley is the purr-fect place to regroup!!

No broken hearts allowed tonight! Let's have a glass of wine with that hot oil massage! OK?

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