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Bubishi's Peace
March 30, 2005
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Hey All,
Are my friends in the valley or have all of you went on your way???

~B~

April 1, 2005
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(((Bubi)))) i am still here in the valley......thanks for the bunny ears!!!! and you look mighty fine in those speedos.

I hope you are feeling better these days, seems like you have alot of big plans coming up in the future...when are you getting out of the AF???

Ok, lets start yelling out for Amanda and Eternal...........where are you all????.......well for now me and Bubi are going to do a lil' relaxing, fun in the sun............so come on down when your up and ready!!!

xxooCamer

April 1, 2005
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Hey Camer,
How you doin' honey???? Long time no hear. I'm OK. Yeah, I have a whole lotta stuff going on. BIG changes in the next few months. I get out in the beginning of August. I must say that I'm a little nervous. I'll be more relaxed if I find out that I have this job nailed down. Have you heard or read anything from Amanda lately?? It seems like forever since she last dropped in. I'm worrying a bit about her.

Well, let's kick back with a few "bahama mamas" with little umbrellas in them (I love fruity drinks) and enjoy the sun.

(((LOVES)))

~B~ ~TPW~

April 12, 2005
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helloooooooooooo....its been 11 days since anyone posted!!! where are you Bubi??? Amanda??? and Eternal???? come on out and play!!!!

I just got back from a trip to Florida, visiting my mom and dad, weather was nice, it was peaceful having fun in the sun and a few drinks and good food!!!

How is everyone???
Lets keep this thread running!!!

ok, here I am alone in this valley, and I need someone to rub the oil on my back!!! and have a few drinks with me and chill out........Come on back ya'll!!!!

(((camer)))

April 15, 2005
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Hi Ya Camer,
It's been a while since anyone wrote back so I had stopped writing. I'm still here in the valley. I've met this girl that is really great but I'm scared. I guess I wear my heart on my sleeve but I'm wondering if I should let myself love her. We have alot in common and she wants the same things out of life that I do. I think she has feelings for me to, but I don't know. I mean, we've spent alot of time together....

~B~

April 18, 2005
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Wow Bub!!! good for you!!! so how long have you been seeing this girl?? weeks or months???

I know like lots of us coda people, wearing the heart on the sleeve...I think you should be able to feel some type of feedback with feelings from her. Does she willingly call you?? and are you picking up good vibes when you are with her???

Take things slow, let the relationship grow and who knows what could happen next.

Lets get this thread rocking again!!!!
Wonder where Eternal and Amanda are...

keep me posted, heck, let's make some
margarita's and do some chattting!!

((camer)))

April 20, 2005
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Hey Camer,
Been a while since I've had the chance to write. I've been seeing this girl for only a few weeks. It's been nice and yes, she willingly calls and spends time. We have slept, I mean slept and nothing else, together which had been real nice having her to hold on to. She holds me at night too sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I would love to make love to this girl but I'm nervous on how to even approach it. It's been quite a while for me and I don't want to maybe mess up what we have. My problem is this, she has 5 years left in the AF and I'm due to get out in a few months. WHat if I fall in love with her, which I think is happening, and then I get out of the AF. I have job prospects back home, but if she's here, what should I do?? Maybe I should just love her the best I can and cross that bridge when we get there. She's great, and I'm a little worried that I'm falling for her.

~B~

April 21, 2005
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Hi Bub, good to hear from you. I would 'go with the flow'. You can work it out if the love is there, and I hope it is, I really do. Talk to her about it and work out a plan together. She sounds like a great girl, good luck to you mate, it's about time you had some happiness.

April 21, 2005
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Wow Bubi, i am so proud of you!!!!
And isn't is a nice feeling "sleeping" with someone and holding them at nite, and having that closeness. I am glad you are waiting also on the "making love" part, that will come in time.

I would just take things naturally, and just go with the flow, see what happens and not worry about the future, who knows what can happen. For now enjoy eachothers company...and when the time comes nothing should change, even when you get out of the AF in a few months, I am sure you both can work on an arrangemnt that will keep you both happy.

I wish you luck & peace in this Peaceful Valley!!! you deserve it...and keep me posted, ok!!!!

(((camer)))

April 25, 2005
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How are all of my friends???? It seems as thoguh Amanda, Eternal, Camer and the rest of the gang have disappeared. Are any of you out there??? If you are, have you heard from the rest of our friends????

~B~

April 26, 2005
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Hi ((Bub)))

I see Camer..I have not heard nor seen Ms Amanda nor Eternal..I hope you are well? How are things going?

Best,

Sunny

April 26, 2005
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Hey Bub!!!! what??? you forgot about me!!! I am still here and always will be!!!!!!

So how are things with the new gal in your life??

and Sunny bunny!!!! glad to see you here in this valley, lets keep things moving along!!!

love & peace to all!!!

April 28, 2005
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Hey Camer,
Well, I don't think things are going well with the new girl. I, as stupid as I am told her how I was feeling. That I really like her alot and I like the time we spend together. I think it freaked her out or something because she has avoided me alot since. I mean, we talk but we haven't had "alone" time since. Me and My damned heart on my sleeve. Always end up with a heartbreak. I really like her too.

April 28, 2005
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Bubi, ok, so how long have you been going with her a month or 2 mos??? I think there is nothing wrong with telling a girl you like her alot and the time you spend together......could it may be her that was afraid??? and maybe wants to take things at a slower pace?? You could always ask her why you seem to think she is avoiding you, it could be that maybe she really is just busy with life and all that. At least you are still talking with her.

Bubi, you are a wonderful, caring sweet guy, and I know that someday you will find the love of your life who will love you back just as much, keep the faith, know that good things will happen, and be patient.

Hope you are doing ok!
((camer)))

April 29, 2005
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Bubishi - I gotta tell ya - I wish I could find someone like you.

You sound like you're one perfect guy. Take things slow with this girl. I've followed your posts with your last love and I really felt bad for you. You had such a hard time......I hope this time it works out.

April 29, 2005
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Thanks ladies,
Here's the thing.... I wear my heart on my sleeve. It's my fatal flaw. I believe so much in the happily-ever-afters that it just seems to never quite get there. I do like her alot, and it's a little weird because of the heartbreak from the last relationship. I was hoping that we could just keep things as they were. We just enjoyed each others company. It didn't need to be said because we knew that. However, silly me just had to come out and say it. Wonder why it is that I can't leave well enough alone. I'm still here in the valley of peace, however, my heart is a little lonely cause I miss my new friend.

~B~

April 29, 2005
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Hey you guys.

I haven't been here in a while, let alone on the computer. I didn't think it had been that long. Sorry, if anyone missed me. I have a (hopefully) more reliable ISP now. =)

Hugs to you all.

~Amanda~

April 29, 2005
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Bubi, you are an honest and up front kind of guy, and well liked and inspired by many women on this board!!!!

I myself, still see nothing wrong with telling this gal how you feel.....how else is anyone going to know unless you communicate. My past relations, when a guy told me he liked me "alot" that didn't bother me, I just wanted to make sure I was on the same level with him. I still hope you and this gal can take things slow and see what happens.

So lets hang out in this peaceful valley, and good things will happen, and hey, we have Sweet Amanda back on board!! woo hoo!!

(((camer)))

April 29, 2005
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AMANDA,
I'm going to try and not be angry that you've disappeared as you have lately. Actually, you just had me a little worried that something really bad had happened. Anyway, I'm glad to see you back my love.... ((((SNUGGLES)))) Been pretty lonely without you.

~B~

April 29, 2005
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Camer,
Thanks for the words. I don't know what's up with this gal. I try to understand where the Hot and Cold comes from. It just seemed that one minute we were good and then we talked and the next.....distance. I'll step back and take it slow, that's no problem for me, I just wish she'd tell me how she's feeling.

~B~

April 29, 2005
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I agree, you did the right thing in being honest about your feelings. It sounds like she got scared. Can you talk to her and ask her whats going on with her?

April 29, 2005
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It's lonely in the Valley tonight. DOes any of my friends have their ears on????

~B~

April 30, 2005
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aaah Bubi, i just must have missed you here it is Saturday, and its me...all alone...wheeereeee is everyone!!! come on down and join the peace in this valley!!!

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Hey Camer,
How you doin' Honey???? Not too bad tonight. It's been a lonely week but things are gettin better everyday. I try to start every day as if it were on purpose and new and refreshed, though sometimes it doesn't end up that way. Still don't know what's up with my lady friend, we are on good speaking terms it seems but I don't know where we're going from here. I told her not to shut me out, that if she is scared or has doubts or whatever, to just talk to me about it. I just wish that people would talk about how they feel, if people did that, then no one would have to try and play mind reader. That's where things get mis-construed and screwed up ya know?????? (((((SNUGGLES CAMER)))))))
You know what I hate the most, you never know when it may be the last time you're going to hold that special someone. One night, you have your face buried in hair and your arm is asleep because it's under her pillow while you're spooning, then the next day you're sleeping alone. I just wish I knew when those last nights would be because I'd never fall asleep. I'd enjoy every minute of cuddling that goes along with it.

~B~

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Hi Bubishi,

I'm sorry to hear you are having a bad time of it again, Sorry I have been gone. I have finished my master's thesis and have a new job that keeps me out in the field every other week - I suppose things have been going well, although I don't feel like it just now.

So I may sound a little harsh, but I don't mean to be - if this girl pulls away because you tell her how you feel, then she is not ready and/or deserving of your attention. Many women who are mentally immature can't deal with the "pressure" of someone who actually likes being around them and tells them so. Can you understand that? Most women have such poor self esteem that they can't conceive of a man who actually values them for themselves. It is not your job to fix those women, but to find someone who can accept your love and give it with equal joy.

I hope you are doing better,

zax

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