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Bubishi's Peace
March 9, 2005
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Hi Bubi....i for one, experienced the suicide of my last bf, and yes, it was devastating...i could never imagine him (my bf) being that depressed and wanting to end his life. It is tough for anyone to deal with, the family, the loved ones, the freinds...never getting the closure needed. I do hope you are holding up ok, though.

I wanna play now!!!! hey Etttttttterrnnnnnaaaaaaallll, where are you??? i can see you Bubi and Amanda, snugglin' up together now!!!

(((camer))))

March 9, 2005
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I can draw, that is, if you'll accept stick figures. =)

And I totally see why you were thinking about the husband. That's the first thing I thought of too!

I don't ever want my man to feel alone and hopeless and not able to tell me.

That's why I like you Bubby. You are open about how you feel. That is so so sexy. *SnuggleKisses*

Okay, we've reprimanded Eternal enough. Like I said, he couldn't help it I do have that charm. 😉

~Amanda~

March 14, 2005
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Hey all!

I've been out of the loop a little bit lately. A lot of work (with some playtime, too!) going on.

I'm glad to see you back in the valley, bubishi. It has been really cool to see how we have all grown together over the past several months. I like seeing all of our transformations.

I met a really sweet girl a couple weeks ago. I have been trying to keep things as superficial as I can. We have been "together" a few times. I guess I'm still not ready for a committed relationship, even though in my heart I feel that is my nature (to be with someone). I still enjoy my time alone. I'm learning how to balance the two. It's harder than I thought it would be. Probably because I read into the whole thing too much.

Anyway, I hope you three (Bubishi, Camer, Amanda) are all doing Great! Keep in touch!

Eternal

March 14, 2005
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Hi Eternal....glad to see you in the dating scene, and looks like you are doing all the right things with taking things slow and having some balance..........

ok, now lets hit that jacuzzi and i'll give you a lil' oiled rubdown after!!! woo hoo!!!

come on over Bubi & Amanda, where are you guys???

((camer))

March 14, 2005
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My God, how sad. I know what you are going through. Man, its tough when you have a public servant that is affected by our social make up. How is the husband coping? Does his union have a support group? And you,....what do you do to decompress after this?

For me, the best is to talk it out. Don't keep this 'in' you.

People do strange things when under stress, be it real or other wise. Don't let this over take you, stay in control and remember your training.

And when alone, pray if you are religious, or seek out ways to deal with the event. Don't shove it way in the back, it will only come forward when you least expect it.

And know this, its not your fault!

Blessed be,....

Magik

March 14, 2005
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Hi Camer!

Thanks for the encouraging words on the dating scene. I guess I still feel like I need to get my total closure (the finalization of the divorce) before I will feel whole again. I am hoping to be totally divorced by the end of April, but it might be May before it's over with.

Anyway, bring on the oil! I could use a good rubdown...I'll do you after you do me!!!

Eternal

March 15, 2005
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SSSSLLLLLLIIIIPPPPPPPP and SSSSSSSLLLLLIIIIIIDDDDEEEEEEE!!!!! I've got the slip-n-slide ready to go with some baby oil for extra slippiness. Party time. Who like "hair" bands???? Rock n Roll!!!! Hell, I'm not Irish but go ahead and kiss me on Thursday anyway.

~B~ ~TPW~

March 16, 2005
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you guys are wild and crazy!!!!hey, i have an idea........lets get the oil and do some "wresling"....hubba hubba, it could be lotsa fun, fun fun!!!!!

love to all!! camer

March 16, 2005
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Hi Bubishi!

Those slip and slides are the greatest! I love the hair bands, too! I have sattelite radio in my car. It pretty much stays on channel 41...The Boneyard!

Anyway, how have things been going for you? Anything new going on with your dating life?

Cop Question...How serious is a hit and run situation if the damage is limited to another vehicle? I don't think there were any people injured.

Let me know when you get some time.

Thanks!
Eternal

March 17, 2005
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Uh-Oh Eternal. Did you hit something/someone? Fess up now.

You mean like a parked car? Or a car with no one in it?

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As for the oil wrestling: I am in the mood for "Long Slow Kisses"

After I get my fill of those, I'd be happy to get dirty. 😉

March 17, 2005
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Hi Amanda,

No, a police officer came to my house looking for my wife. When I told him she hadn't lived here for almost 6 months, he asked where she was living. I asked what was going on. He told me they want to ask her about a hit and run at a local bar a few weeks ago.

I figured if she reported the hit and run, they would have known where she is living. That's why I wonder if it was her that hit something and took off. My guess is someone got her plate number and called the police. When they ran the plate it would have listed our house as her residence.

Oh well...it doesn't have anything to do with me, so I'm not going to get too worried. I was just curious as to how serious that offense is.

Eternal

March 17, 2005
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Eternal,
Sounds like that's what happened. She was probably intoxicated, hit a parked car and took off because she didn't wanna get hit with a DUI. Someone at the bar probably got her plate. She'll probably get charged with leaving the scene of an accident which in most states is a misdemeanor. She'll probably have a fine, or jail time if she can't pay it and will have to pay for damages. If no one got hurt that is. If someone got hurt then it can be jumped up in scope and could be considered a felony if the injuries were extensive.

~B~

March 17, 2005
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Amanda,
Hey Sweetheart!! I sure could use some of those long slow kisses myself. My heart sure could use a little lovin'. It gets lonely alot these days. ((((Smooches)))))

~Bubishi~
~The Peaceful Warrior~

March 18, 2005
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So are you really a police officer Bubby?

Honest, I think that is so sexy. And no, not just because of the fact that you own handcuffs! (That is a plus though) 😉

But a professional man turns me on more than anything. Dunno why!

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Does your wife drink eternal? How are things going with you anyways? You are so with-it that I forget that you are having a hard time. Are you two getting a divorce? Do you have any children?

March 18, 2005
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Hey Amanda,
Yeah I'm really a police officer. I've been in law enforcement for almost 9 years now. Did ya think I was Kidding????? I have handcuffs all over the place. It's part of my decorating.

~Bubishi~ ~TPW~

March 18, 2005
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Thanks for the feedback, Bubishi! I Greatly appreciate it. I figure what you said is what happened. Who knows...I haven't had any contact with her for almost two months now. It's been nice!

Hi Amanda! I am doing pretty well. I met a nice girl a few weeks ago. I have to be careful because I promised myself I wouldn't get too involved with anyone until my divorce is final. That might take a couple more months. I have slept with this girl a few times. It has been a blast. We have alot of fun together just hanging out. It scares me a little. I guess I'm on the fence...I could easily ask her if this can be an exclusive thing between us, but I also wonder if I should experience more connections with some different women. I'm not talking about sleeping around. I'm just thinking I might be selling myself short. I've talked to about 5 different women over the last few months. This is the first one I've gotten physical with.

This whole dating thing is tough for me. I have always been too quick to "latch" on to the first woman that shows me some attention.

My wife is an occasional drinker. She is definitely not an alcoholic. I wonder if she is into drugs though because of the things she has done in the past (pawning things).

Anyway, thanks for asking. I feel good about life in general. Now where the hell is Camer?!

Eternal

March 19, 2005
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Camer is here!!! hope all my wonderful friends are doing great in this valley we own...ok, who is cooking tonite, cuz i am ready for the "giving massages" later...!! woo hoo!!

March 19, 2005
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Hey Camer,
I'll cook. It relaxes me. I think maybe tonight, some grilled salmon and some rice pilaf. Also, I think a nice salad will top the meal off. I make a pretty awesome salmon. If people don't like fish, I can always do my famous Lemon Pepper Pork Chops. I tell you what, One taste, and you'll wanna have'em all the time.

~B~ ~TPW~

March 21, 2005
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so how was the weekend for all my
Peaceful warrior friends??? Bubishi?? Amanda?? Eternal???

for now I am just "Letting Go and Letting God" and having a peaceful day with myself, at work or course.

xxoo

March 21, 2005
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My weekend was fine. Too short as usual. LOL Thinking now, I can't even remember what I did this past weekend! Wow.

I'm going to go to the library probably tomorrow. I need to get a book for the idle times at work. I key at a computer, but it's like 20 minutes on, 20 off... You know? So when I sit there waiting for more mail, I want to have something to do.

Any suggestions? I'm in the mood for fiction. No self-helps while at work. LOL Oh, and if it's really sexy, that's cool too. "He slowly caresses her lower back, the wanton vixen pants in anticipation..." LOL I am so corny, I know. =)

Luv to you all!
~Amanda~

March 22, 2005
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Hey Amanda,
I should recommend to you any book by Nicholas Sparks if you want lovin'. He
s the guy that wrote "The Notebook", "A Walk to Remember", "Message in a Bottle" the books are really good just like the movies. If you like Cop books (you know I do!!) I recommend John Sanford's "Prey" series. It's like 15 books of the best detective stories around. All built on one cop's life named "Lucas Davenport". They're all a great read. Or, if you haven't read it, "Way of the Peaceful Warrior" by Dan Millman. GREAT BOOK!!! ;o)

~B~

March 23, 2005
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Hey y'all!

I haven't posted in a few days. I have been busy with work and play!

I met a girl a few weeks ago. I'm trying my best to keep everything low key. I almost hate it when you find someone who makes you laugh, feel good, you enjoy their company, and they don't have any expectations all in one.

It's confusing because I made a pact with myself not to get too involved with anyone until my divorce is final. That will take another month or two, and here I am...finding myself thinking about this girl more than I should. It's hard to resist though. She is sooooo cool, and we always have a Blast when we are together.

Anyway, I'm not going to bore you with more details. All I can say is I am keeping this as low key as I can right now. No committments from either of us. I like it that way for now.

I am thinking I should meet more women and see what is out there in this world. What do you guys think?

Eternal

March 27, 2005
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Hey all,
How are my friends in the Valley of Peace today??? I've been fighting off a terrible head cold, must be from running around the valley all "neked" ;o)

~B~ ~TPW~

March 28, 2005
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hi Eternal, glad you met a nice gal and having a great time too.
About meeting and dating other women, that is up to you, do you feel like you want to "slow" things down and meet other woman, or do you really like this gal alot??? its all up to you, whichever path you choose, all I can do is recommend is to take things slow, which you are, and when your divorce is finally done/ signed /sealed etc...then maybe you can have a better idea on dating, etc....hope that made sense.
I myself started dating a wonderful man, he is divoced, as of last year, but i know from dating, i would not want to get too involved with anyone who is "separated" and not yet divorced, cuz i guess of the fear of the men "going back" to there ex's....this is just my opinion on how i feel with dating.

Eternal, i wish you the best in the dating scene, and go by how you feel using the heart and the head and good things will happen, you have come this far and have made great strides and life is looking good for you.

Keep me posted, ok!

Hi Bubi, hope your head cold is getting better.

How was all of your Easter Holiday everyone??? Me, had ham and with lotsa leftovers for lunches.

Hugs and support to all!!!
xxoo Camer

March 28, 2005
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Hello My Friends in the Valley, How is everyone??? My Easter was kinda non-existent this year. That's what happens when you're alone and not near family. I'm still adjusting with not having Deb for the holidays. I gotta get through all of them I guess for it to not seem weird. I'm at peace though so it doesn't matter. The head cold is better, but still kicking my butt. I am relieved that I finally got package complete and sent off to Charlotte PD so I can try and get this job lined up for when I get out of the AF and head home. Enough about me though. It's time to have an Easter Party!!!! I have a speedo and Bunny Ears so ladies, lets get crazy!!!!

~B~ ~TPW~

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