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break-in...trying not to cry at work....GG
October 23, 2006
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After all that is going on, got to my classroom and it was broken in. Police already came;have to fill out a report...nothing valuabe taken....just things messed, up , destroyed, or taken....I feel so violated...someone going through my stuff, someone sitting in my chair, thank goodness, they couldn't get on my computer....

Going to get some medical news, probably fine, but together...I am struggling....the tears are right there...but I have to keep that calm, smiling face for my students and it is so hard

Add to that, many misbehaved badly Friday when I was at hospital and they are lying about it...I WANT TO GO HOME AND CRY, BUT CAN'T...trying to suck it up...

October 23, 2006
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GG,

I love you and I am holding you close..

(((GG)))
Scared

October 23, 2006
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mich, WHY??? I hate when I need to cry and can't...It hurts so much to hold it in...It feels so creepy to know someone has gone through my personal drawer, seen my pictures of my kids, etc. What was stolen I don't care about? Also, I didn't even tell, I was here alone working yesterday for 1 1/2 hours by myself, to catch up on missing Friday...What if they would have come then????

Oh gosh, need my friends today, need help...

October 23, 2006
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GG---

I AM RIGHT HERE WITH YOU... AND

HOLDING YOU CLOSE (((GG))

like you said, you have been through so much...and now this....

YOu are A STRONG WOMAN, GG!!!!!!!!!!!

thinking of you today

keep in touch!!!!

October 23, 2006
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GG,

You keep your chin up and know that you are being held VERY close right now. I love you gf. I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. Don't think about what if it had happened when you were there. Just thank God that you were not. Honey, you are gonna be ok...We are right here with you. Take a deep breath, and feel the hugs. Take peace in knowing that you are not alone and that your friends are thinking about you, and hoding you close right now.

Scared

October 23, 2006
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thanks mich and need, you have no idea how your responses have helped...Also, my job is 30 miles from home, so I really feel alone today.

October 23, 2006
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GG.... I am here with MIch and we are right here...honey

Like Mich said, take a deep breath and feel our hugs...

Thank God you were NOT there ..

You are strong,GG...

You have your friends here with you ...

love,

NEED

October 23, 2006
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trying to stay calm, trying to breathe, chest hurts a lot...

I know everything will be okay,,,just need to calm down...

Thank you so much, it is helping...Please, let nothing else go wrong today...

October 23, 2006
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GG,

holding you close....(((gg)))

Love ya gf, you are alright...

Scared

October 23, 2006
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We are here GG....

GG-- you and Mich will be proud of me

the ex-b/f called
i did not answer
he left a message and assumes that I would call back and also said that he was wondering if i had a good weekend or not..
don't owe him anything
he does not deserve to know how the weekend went
closed the door

GG-- I will be here with you ...

keep posting honey

I wish you did not have to go through all of this misery.....

But like I said, you are a very strong woman

we have you in our thoughts and in our hearts today

love,
"I WILL HEAL"

October 23, 2006
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GG---

God, help me let go of my need to be in resistance to the harmonic flow of life. Help me learn to go with the flow and accept the help and support that You have to offer..

From
The Language of Letting Go
Daily Meditations for Codependents

Melody Beattie

October 23, 2006
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GG-

Sending positive energy and comforting thoughts to you.

You will get through this.

This will be one of those days that makes other days seem that much better.

Hang in there.

The sunshine is always there- just sometimes hidden by the clouds. The clouds in your life are thick today- but keep in mind the sunshine is always just behind them. Just hold on until there is a break in the clouds and the sun will come through to warm you again.

Sharing a bit of my sunshine with you- until your sunshine reaches you again.

Lots of hugs and support for you today.

Chelonia

October 23, 2006
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thanks to all of you, you are my support that I yearn for now; chest still hurts, trying still to calm myself, things keep coming up that upset me, ...but I know it will pass.
I feel so lucky to have all of you today with me,,,thanks

October 23, 2006
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mich are you around?

October 23, 2006
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aaah GG - I am so sorry that this happend to you. It feels like such a personal violation when someone violates your space - your things. You didn't need this, I am so sorry.

And your naughty kids... my daughter-in-law is a jr high math teacher and it never fails that she always has at least one student who will test the sub, and like you cause her stress that was not needed. Her last story (from last school year), one of her students from her first hour, took my daughter-in-laws notes and assignments prepared for the sub (that she spent time preparing) and threw them away - no where to be found...so the entire day the sub didn't have anything or really the students ended up losing a day's work. Well, my daughter-in-law was pissed...she actually kicked the student out of her class while the student begged for her mom not to find out. Daughter-in-law didn't care and was hoping to get a call from the mom.

(((GG)))

October 23, 2006
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(((GG))) I'm so sorry what you went thru, Honey! But I THANK GOD, that you were not there when it happened! It's definately a violation of many things.

Hang in there, Sweetie!! You have your friends here and you can cry anytime you wish!!

(((GG)))

October 23, 2006
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thanks jen, it seems like I only cry on the inside...what keeps it in...i do not know...it is so painful in...

how are you doing today?

October 23, 2006
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I'm doing ok. It's definately a Monday, though!

My daughter called to say she made it to her dad's. She only wishes to be there about a week, and then wants to move on. She sounded good.

I just miss her. But I've been so busy, it helps to take my mind off it.

I hope you have a better day, tommorrow, GG. This was an awful thing you went thru. I'm the opposite with tears. I can only keep them back for so long, then it all busts out, like a dam breaking. And it truly wipes me out, BUT, it helps to release some of the emotion that builds up.

It all happens in our own time, (crying, that is). And when it does, just let the tears roll.

(((GG))) Hang in there, Sweetie!! I'm thinking of you!

Love ya'!!

Jen

October 23, 2006
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thanks jen...Staying busy helps me a lot...Just when I think I am over the break-in event, someone would say, "gosh GG, what if they would have come when you were here working alone yesterday and if they had a weapon!"

They now think it is a kid or kids seeking revenge against me and another teacher...With all the school shootings lately, it makes me feel so good that a kid wants to come after me, (sarcasm of course)

I am not going there alone anymore unless I have to...Just wondering which kid or kids...There was one real quiet one that was absent today...hmmm...can't do that though, have to drop it...trying...

October 24, 2006
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Hi GG...

just wanted you to know that i am thinking of you .. You are in my thoughts and prayers..

sweet dreams, my friend

October 24, 2006
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Hi GG...

just wanted you to know that i am thinking of you .. You are in my thoughts and prayers..

sweet dreams, my friend

October 24, 2006
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need, you are so sweet to me...are you up?

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