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Boyfriend's A Virgin
December 17, 2001
7:19 pm
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Genna
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Hi, I'm Genna and I'm new to this board. I hope any one of you can help me with this situation. I'm 35 and my boyfriend of four months is 42. I'm separated from my husband of 7 years, but the divorce will be final next month. My boyfriend is never been married because he didn't find the right girl yet.

So the problem is last Thursday night, on the way home in his car, I told him that I have something to say which he might be disppointed of. I confessed to him that I don't believe in having sex before marriage because of my religion (him and I have same religion). He laughs so hard, with a big smile on his face. Feeling insulted, I asked him why he laughs at me. He said "You wouldn't believe this...I mean, that's GREAT! That's WONDERFUL! I haven't told anyone, NOBODY at all, that I never had sex with a girl yet." He smiles at me and gave me a hug.

In my head, I'm like "what??????????". First of all, I'm glad that he didn't dumped me. I'm confused right now because of his laughs. What does that mean? Does that mean he's happy for me or it's a joke? Now I know he's a virgin and I respect that. I just don't get it - he laughs at me. Help!

December 17, 2001
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Genna,
I don't think that he was laughing AT you. He was probably just really scared to tell you, because, like you, he thought that you might dump him if you knew. He was laughing because he was relieved. Many people laugh like this as a relief of stress. I wouldn't worry about it.
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December 17, 2001
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42 and a virgin, now thats inspiration. i thought i was the oldest at 25.
so i guess it doesnt mean i have to lose my virginity to be happy?

December 17, 2001
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I'm 22. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one out there.

December 17, 2001
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If only it was that I hadn't "buckled under peer pressure or horny guys with cheap talk." What do you say to a 22 year old vigin by default, not choice? (I'm not saying that I wouldn't still be a virgin if I had had the choice, but it would be nice to have been given that option.)
Sorry Genna for briefly steering the conversation away from you and your boyfriend!

December 17, 2001
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HHHMMMMMMM.... I have never been witha virgin. Never interested me. I like someone who does not need direction. and for those ones who ask "tell me when you cum" are just completely fu**ing clueless cause baby when I do it the whole G.D. neighborhood knows it. My neighbors don't appreacieate it though. It has been a while but by choice not by lack of opp.

I really admire the fact that there are all of you guys out there that are waiting till it is right. I was almost 17 and was the last one of all my friends to loose it. Can you believe it? I really mostly did it to get it over with. I did not enjoy it till a few years later. Now it is look out world cause here I cum!!

December 18, 2001
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LOL

December 18, 2001
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That's great to make it to 42. The person I'm having sex with didn't make it until he was 31. That's a logn wait considering I was much younger than 17 when I lost it... and wanted to get it over with... But, it must be challenging to teach a 42 year old what you want. If you did however, and he's an eager learner, all the better for you.

December 18, 2001
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Gypsy and Blondie, I'm at work right now (not supposed to be messing around, oh well) and I'm laughing out loud trying to make up excuses for it. You guys crack me up! I totally can relate to the "did you cum" thing. If you don't know, you shouldn't be having sex! Anyway, getting back to Genna, your boyfriend was probably just nervous. You've heard of nervous laughter haven't you? Think of it, if you were a guy, 42 years old and still a virgin, wouldn't you be nervous to tell your girlfriend that? Don't sweat it, I'm sure he wasn't making fun of you. It was probably relief.

December 18, 2001
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SEE THATS WHY I'M HERE TO BRING JOY TO YOUR LIFE 😉

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