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Blind sighted - betrayal
September 10, 2001
3:37 pm
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Over the years I have been in relationships and found that most have not been successful with the exception of two. The one that bothers me the most happened recently. The person has a position of power in the community and plays the part of being from a functional family and maintains a job and position on the City Council. Yet this person has been using drugs, alcolhol, and pornography for years, they have a secret live that I stumbled across by accident. The most distrubing part of this is that I fell for the lies hook line and sinker. When this finally came to light they had admitted that the father had been involved with prostitutes, was alcoholic along with the mother, and that one of the brothers had been involved with the trafficing of drugs, yet I have to ask my self this one question, Am I being too trusting in people? When they tell me one thing and almost a year later I find out that it was a pack of lies, should I have investigated this person? Are all men pathological liers? I am very disappointed and hurt by this person as the betrayal was so smoothe that I did not pick up on it for approximately a year and a half.
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September 10, 2001
5:14 pm
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Sometimes, we only see what we want to see. I am in a really frustrated place today, wondering what is really going on with people in general. I am amazed at the lies, little lies, big lies,that I uncover on a daily basis, not just with those close to me, but in business, business transactions, yada yada yada. There is hardly a family that has not been touched with, drugs, alcohol, or porno. Our leaders, all have secerets, our clients, all have some seceret, and the lies, or ommissions, which are close to lies, are incredible. Unless you are a paranoid person, you take at face value what is presented as truth. perhaps the more we put our selves out there TODAY, the less truth we are able to take at face value, not that I don't resent it, but can I do alot about it, no.
Getting over the betrayal is impossible, forever. That precious circle of trust,our trust,is so fragile, and once violated, the waves of reprocussion go on, and on and on. At first it knocks the wind out of you, and then the timely process of acceptance. You are not the first, and unfortunately not the last, now you as well as many are forced to ask on a regular basis, what appears to be truth, is it really??? Forced to wait and see.
Eyes wide open. I am sorry, its a very rude awakening.

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