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blaming me
August 13, 2007
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teddibear
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My boyfriend of 4 years had an affair on me. I do love him and still want our life we planned. But I dont know how to deal with him putting the blame on me. plz help me.

August 13, 2007
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Teddiebear, If he is blaming you, it means he is not apologetic or taking responsibility and he will probably do it again. As for the life you had planned, this will probably be part of that life. How do you hope to deal with this? Please consider carefully what you want to do because most of these cheaters do not change. Keep us posted

August 13, 2007
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Dear Teddibear,

I wonder why you would choose to remain in a relationship with someone who cheated on you and then refused to take responsibility for his actions? Those are two GIANT red flags.

I know it is hard to let go when you have made plans for a future. But this is the one life you are given. You need to explore why you would want to spend it with someone like this.

Sorry. I know that is not what you wanted to hear.

sad

August 13, 2007
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If he is blaming you then he does not really feel sorry, he should be taking full responsiblity and doing everything in his power to let you know how bad he feels and build you up, and be by yourside and take whatever you dish out for as long as you feel hurt or neglected etc. I saw this on doctor phil.

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