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bisexual? gay? str8t?
March 5, 2000
6:54 pm
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Here's my backround:
I have been having sex with women, but also started having sex with men about 3 years ago. Initially, the sex with men was just to get laid, have a lot of fun, and it was new. However, I started noticing that sex with men is different (I'm talking emotionally, men are obviously physically different :-). I noticed that I didn't get the same closeness or intimacy when having sex with men as I did with women.I just didn't feel the same "loving" feelings. So I sought to explore having a relationship with men, but I just can't seem to take that plunge. I am so worried that if I do I can never go back and it feels weird too and it would mean a lot more self disclosure. Also, sex with women really turns me on. With men, I tend to have erectal problems.

Here are my questions
I don't trust myself: am I afraid to be gay, or am I really not attracted to and don't want to be in a relationship with men?
Should I stop having sex with men?
Do erectal problems with men mean that I am not as attracted to them?
How (or when) can I be honest with a woman about my sexual past?
Do I need to label myself as bi/str8t/or gay?
Is it ok not to have a serious and lengthy relationship with either sex?

March 5, 2000
8:59 pm
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September 24, 2010
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don't know the answers to the biological stuff at all...but noone should be doing anything that makes them uncomfortable.

If you enhoy the closeness emotional stuff with women..stick with women.

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