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being right can hurt
April 23, 2004
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I confirmed last night that my greatest fears were true. During the relationship I always suspected that he was seeing someone and last night I confirmed it with my own eyes. Each time I would say something about it he would say that it was just my codependency and that I needed help.

I did need help and got it and it made me realize what an ASS I was involved with. He has been seeing this person the whole time that we have been togther.

It did help to see with my own eyes. I want to continue to move forward and have learned a great deal from this experience. In a sense, I guess I should be greatful that my eyes have been opened to my problem with codependency.

MILO

April 23, 2004
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Hey Milo---

Sorry to hear that you were right. But isn't it great to know that your instincts were right on and that it wasn't YOU!! 🙂

I went through a similar situation with my ex and the relief and pain I experienced all at once was overwhelming. Relief that I wasn't paranoid and pain that it had to end.

Best of luck to you and have faith in your instincts!

acj

April 23, 2004
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ajc,

Thanks. It gets better everyday. I know that I will be a better partner the next time love comes around. I hope to stay out of anything serious for at least 6 months.

MILO

April 23, 2004
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MILO-

I am sorry you had that painful experience, but glad that you are out of it. In my last relationship I suspected my ex was cheating but had no "proof." When enough evidence mounted I got out. I shouldn't have waited that long.

Be well and refrain from ever thinking you were inadequate in any way- sometimes when people cheat that is what we tell ourselves. It's him, though, not you.

We are here for you.
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-ella

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