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Bad Neighbors
October 10, 2001
1:50 pm
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I've lived on my block for 6 years now. My immediate neighbor and I don't get along because of our two daughters. They are 14 years old. My latest confrontation with the mother of the other 14 year old was very dissapointing. She became defensive immediately and was very mean to me and others. Her daughter admits to wanting to hurt my daughter and using racial slurs against my daughter. Her mother heard her admit it but yet nothing has been resolved. I fear that my daughter may be harmed and I also fear for my younger daughter who is 12. What can I do?

October 10, 2001
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Two suggestions, one use what is going on in the world as a foundation for peace, take a plate of cookies, and explain that one war is enough, you are my neighbor, and I don't want war with you. Love thy neighbor, and if she slams the door in your face, then explain to your daughters that not all people can celebrate differences, and that is part of the problem of the world today, and to avoid talking, interacting, or trespassing with the neighbors.
hate crimes, and terrorist threats and a terrorist threat can be just about anything now a days, are illegal. Call the police department the next time there is a confrontation, as you have fear for your saftey and that of your daughters, that she is using racial slurs, and fear being a victim of a hate crime. That will indeed shake her up, and really cause war, so be prepared to follow through. But I would really try the love thy neighbor first, be the big person. Then try the police. You have the right to comfort and peace of mind.

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