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baby steps
December 23, 2004
6:19 pm
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I have made it 24 hours without picking the phone up to call my husband. Hell usually I walk around all day with the phones so I wont miss a call from him.The only time he calls is when he suspects me getting strong and moving farther and farther away from wanting to be with him. Baby steps thats what I'm taking. I hope if he does call tonight i have the strength not to answer.

December 23, 2004
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I always turn my phone off, there is something to be said about the power in taking that step.

December 23, 2004
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I can totally empathize with you lost. It DOES get easier, trust me. You are so right on when you say he calls when he suspects you are getting stronger--its called manipulation and control. Just take one day at a time--or even one hour at a time with no contact. Be prepared, cause he will try to contact you again. Be strong and know in your heart and mind you are doing the right thing. I have an ongoing battle with not talking to me ex-he does the very same thing yours does--calls when he thinks I am stronger, then stirs up all old emotions and feelings that I used to have for him. It leads to utter turmoil and misery when I do talk to him. So no more for me-- I know you can achieve the same too!! Take care and BE STRONG!!!!!!!

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