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:Aunt Problem:
April 23, 2007
11:06 pm
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j_...I can relate. I was molested by a friend of the family when I was 8,9,10...and I blocked it until two years ago after I got really sick and then all of a sudden I remembered everything and it was really hard to keep it together for a while. Are you seeing a therapist? Is that who told you about your mom? Well, regardless of what the Dr. says, your mom should have done something about it. Can you talk to her again about it? You could also write your aunt a letter or go to her grave and speak your heart to her and say everything you might need to. Basically whatever you feel you need to do to get past this do it. Now you can speak but the 9 year old that noone could. Perhaps this is why it is coming up now because you have the courage to deal with it. Keep coming back and writing here. All the best to you!

April 24, 2007
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J_dub, it will be this way for a while, just go with it, write, talk, do what you need to to get through this. It was the same for me and even now I still remember things. At first I just felt a great deal of shame and it felt like people around me knew and were judging me, then I'd feel phony when people would say what a nice person and how calm and collected I always seem. It was literally an everyday out of body experience; continuing to live life as if everything was the same with all these memories and strange thoughts and emotions. It does get easier though. Hang in there and keep coming back.

Seek a a support group for adult survivors of sex abuse...They would know how you are feeling.

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