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August 8, 2001
12:18 pm
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I have been married for four years.Things seemed to be good at first but from the first year have felt myself getting more unhappy everyday due to inlaws and just problems in marriage.I cry almost everyday and I feel so alone sometimes.I feel my husband and I have nothing in common and I feel I am at a loss of what to do.
PLEASE HELP

August 8, 2001
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Dear Cab,

It sounds like you are still struggling to make many big life adjustments around your marriage. It's an extremely big job to integrate your life with someone else's, especially considering the amount of time that has to be devoted to bonding with all the in-laws.

I wonder if you would find some relief in focusing some of your hard work on yourself. . . Perhaps there's a part of you that is longing for some self-love and attention. It can be very frustrating if we need our partners to provide affirmation for us and they are too busy to notice our needs.

What are your interests? What inspires passion in you? What things have you desired to do that you didn't have time to do before but can focus on now? I would love to know more about you.

Mal

August 8, 2001
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dear mal. Thank you for replying to me . I sometimes feel I need to make myself happy but I am just so down I am just not sure anymore how or what will make me happy. I'm just not sure how to take that fist step to make myself happy again.

August 8, 2001
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You sound like me. Like the need to know who you are, how to make yourself happy, and determine your goals. I understand and wish you well... Your hubby will understand. You might just want to start exploring some activities or hobbies...

August 8, 2001
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Write the specific problem down, and then write what would cure it. We spend so much time recycling things in our heads, we never really go any where with it, and it just seems to grow. You sound lonely, which happens when we get isolated, and live out of balance, that happens some times, got some girl friends, go to lunch, go shopping, go to the gym, and change the chemistry in the brain.

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