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Are You A Bimbo? a fun test
July 24, 2005
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Oops. Here it is.

Is Your Success in Romantic Relationships Hindered Because You're a Bimbo?

Jerome Murray, Ph.D.

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To find out your B.Q. (Bimbo Quotient) take the test. Answer "True" or "False" to each question (True means "True, or mostly True"), and False means "False, or mostly False"). Use a piece of paper to record your answers until I figure out how to score this electronically.

1. My idea of the perfect man is someone really good-looking with lots of money.

2. To get a man you should pretend to be a little dumb.

3. Men who drive sports cars are more attractive than men who don't.

4. If a guy spends a lot of money on you it's only fair to let him have a few sexual favors.

5. It's okay to flirt with other guys as long as your boy friend doesn't find out.

7. A woman's most important goal is to find a good man to take care of her.

8. I enjoy the relationship more if the man is a little dangerous.

9. If I can't find a man to take care of me I don't know how I'll make it financially.

10. It's important to try and be what the man wants you to be if you want to keep him.

11. Never let a guy see you unless your hair and make-up are perfect.

12. Most women take sex too seriously.

13. If a guy treats you real good he's probably a wimp.

14. If you don't have a guy it means you're a loser.

15. Handling money is a man's job.

16. It's okay to date a married man if his wife doesn't satisfy him.

17. To get a a man you should dress and act as sexily as you can.

18. If you don't want to date a guy, tell him you're still getting over your last relationship.

19. If a man is a real man he'll probably treat you a little rough.

20. When you're with a guy you should always agree with what he says so he'll like you more.

21. The guys I'm attracted to have trouble making commitments.

22. I would never consider dating a guy who wore glasses and was losing his hair.

23. If you don't want to see a guy again make up a story so you don't hurt his feelings.

24. Having sex with a guy is the best way to keep him.

25. I feel depressed when I'm not in a relationship with a guy.

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Score one point for each "True" answer and continue to get your B.Q.

Now, go find out what a Bimbo is - and whether you are one!

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Before you find out your score maybe you want to know...

WHAT'S A BIMBO?

Bimbos are characterized by:

VALUE FLUFF
A bimbo has materialistic values. She is attracted to a man for superficial reasons such as appearance, wealth, and the degree of excitement he generates.

SUGAR DADDY HUNGER
A bimbo feels incomplete, frightened, and inadequate by herself. She wants a relationship so someone will "take care of her." This over dependence on a man leads to a failure to develop life skills. She lacks personal goals and ambition and craves a life of comfort and ease. She doesn't like to expend disciplined effort or defer gratification.

SEX APPEAL ADDICTION
A bimbo is addicted to the need to be desirable. This is manifested by an obsessive emphasis on her physical appearance, especially those features which make her "sexy." Her greatest fear is the fear of losing her attractiveness and being unwanted and alone.

BODY SWAPPING
A bimbo is willing to swap her body for the comfort she craves. She treats her body as a commodity giving it in trade for the favors she desires. She packages her sex appeal and markets herself as a product then looks for a "buyer" using her body as bait to catch a man.

Now that you know what a Bimbo is

check out your score...

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What is Your Bimbo Quotient?

(Remember, score one point for each question you answered "True.")

0 -5 = You have a below average B.Q. You're capable of taking care of yourself and don't need a man to make you complete. You are interested in someone to share your life, not to "make" your life. Even though your "Bimbo Quotient" is low, if even one answer was "True" working to change it can increase your potential for success in love.

6 - 10 = Your B.Q. is average, but that's not good enough for you, is it? When with a man you fluctuate between acting maturely and acting like a bimbo. When you're with a man who is attracted to Bimbos it brings out the bimbo in you. Be more selective, even though it may lead to "dry" spells. It's worth it to be with someone who brings out, and reinforces the best in you, and has the ability to return your love.

11 - 15 = You're bogged down in adolescence. You've never really grown past the superficial behaviors and values that govern adolescent relationships. Your tenuous grasp on adulthood causes you to go from relationship to relationship never really understanding what went wrong when they break up; and they inevitably break up. The main difference between you and a complete bimbo is awareness. Even though you don't understand why, you are vaguely aware, and concerned, that something is wrong with your relationship behavior. You're right, and it doesn't have to continue. Put more emphasis on being able to take care of yourself. Start appreciating the deeper values in relationships such as respect, loyalty, honesty, devotion, common goals, reliability, and the ability to give and receive love.

16 - 25 = Uh oh! You're a B-I-M-B-O! Read this carefully. I'll try to keep it simple so you'll understand. Your relationships are superficial and transient. You are attracted to jerks, and they love you. Not much chance of having real love with that combination. You feel empty and incomplete when not in a relationship, and when you are in one it's not much better. Your emotions go from excitement and elation to increasingly frequent periods of frustration, disappointment, and pain. You don't need a man to love you, you need to love yourself. The reason your score was so high may be simply early and frequent exposure to dysfunctional examples of "getting" a man, or you may have been seriously stunted by traumatic childhood experiences. Whatever, a little psychotherapy might not be a bad idea to help you discover the origin of your self-destructive behavior and ways to correct it.

Copyright © 1992. Jerome Murray, Ph.D. All rights reserved.

July 24, 2005
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very fun!!

i scored a 0-5..I said true for #12..as I take sex very seriously..a time a place, commitment...all those things...which leads me my second 'true' ..#21. all others were false.

July 24, 2005
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Okay, SD,

I was just going to post to you and here you got this! I was going to ask you if you took the test? You just have to! Any one with any growth here at AAC, I believe will score high and NOT be a Bimbo, or at least are working on it and if they score as one, that is ok too, cuz they are working on it.

I failed No 11 and 12, (that is me, manicured and take sex seriously, not loosely) and one I cannot share, so I scored 22. Whew! I KNEW we were worth more!!!!!!!!!!!

I do sorta disagree with the number 12. Oops, maybe I misread it....take sex too serioulsy? Am a bad test taker. "Most women take sex too serioulsy".....too tired to figure it out.

July 24, 2005
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I think we may be not understanding number 12.....the test is set up that all answeers are true, so we may be not reading it right.

July 24, 2005
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sorry, dyslexic? OMW now I am confuse. SD help, please

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Well unfortunately, #8 is still true for me- gotta work on that one. I've used #18 before. #21 has been a pattern but I want to break it. So yeh- I'm in the 0-5 scores. Yippee.

Uh... Sew...if you scored a 22, you're a B-I-M-B-O. (?)

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it is a personal thing about #12 are my thoughts...i can't see how a bimbo would take it too seriously, so i don't understand how it applies to being a bimbo either.

July 24, 2005
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I think #12 needs some clarification too ... I think the "too" is actually the key word. I am with OMW - I need a commitment ... my thoughts are that being too serious might mean you are taking the joy/fun out of it when you are in a commited relationship.

Some of what I think confirms this include:

#12 - Having sex with a guy is the best way to keep him ...

and most of the ones on the "Jerk" test at http://www.betteryou.com/jerk.htm.

July 24, 2005
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Actually, I said no to all but number 12 and numbers 12,so instead of true, it should be false. The test is set up for false response, not true.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOo, I am not a bimbo, so I then scored 3, not 22.

Maybe being redheaded is like being blonde.......dingy? Not a bimbo tho!!!! Not to be sexist, either, just trying to save myself here and am only digging in further.

Time to sign off, just too tired. thanks all

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I'm baaaaaack....I think I got it?

Looking at number 17...(or any of the questions):

17. To get a a man you should dress and act as sexily as you can.

Answer...no, you shouldn't have to dress as sexy as you can to get a man. (You shouldn't be a slob, either).

So, looking at number

12. Most women take sex too seriously.

Answer...no, most women do not take sex too serioulsy, they should take it seriously.

If women DID take sex MORE serioulsy, then they would wait for a committed relationship, marriage or hold having sex on a higher level. To NOT do so, is not taking sex seriously enough.

The criteria for answering the questions is...

True means "True, or mostly True"), and False means "False, or mostly False").

"mostly" is the key word.

July 24, 2005
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great insight sew, and:

maybe they take sex too seriously as a means to attract a man? or was it a typo and is supposed to say men instead of women?

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I think you got the correct interpretation (#12), sew! thnx ... =)

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you know, i amhappy to say that i have never been a Bibmo...whoops i mean Bimbo. too close to B-I-N-G-O, remember that song?

July 24, 2005
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OMW - I think if a True answer means you believe that women should not take it serious ... that instead, women should take it losely as if "sleeping around" is not a big deal.

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exactly, and all of this makes more sense now....whew!

July 24, 2005
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OMW - me neither!!! ... =))

Not sure if I heard that song before. how does it go?

July 24, 2005
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It is about a horse named Bingo. Can't remember the beginning, but some of it goew, "had a horse and Bingo was his name..B-I-N-G-O, spell it two more times and the last line is: And bingo was his name-o.

Just a song learned many, many child years ago!

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OMG I feel kinda bad. I answered false to every question. What is the opposite of a bimbo???

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Oh gosh, I know that one! We sang it with "dog" rather than horse though. I looked up the song and found the lyrics at: http://www.bussongs.com/songs/bingo.php

There was a farmer had a dog,
And Bingo was his name-O.
B-I-N-G-O!
B-I-N-G-O!
B-I-N-G-O!
And Bingo was his name-O!

I know, I'm weird. late here & gettign goofy!! ... %-)

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one smart chick! ... =)))

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I meant that one for you, mama! And so true, so true! I am starting to think that it's not US that are crazy, it's the rest of the world that we are trying to figure out that is ... lol!

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angel...o my gosh, it was about a dog!!! where did i think it was a horse i wonder...how funny!! maybe i was thinking about Mr. Ed...can you beleive i remember all of the words to that one!!

mamac...the opposite of a Bimbo...dunno...

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Whew! thanks, angel, thanks, OMW, now I feel better.

MamaC, look above, I just went thru all that, right, wrong, true false. You did alrighty! You are not a bimbo and neithaer am I!

I leave for a minute to make a phone call to a friend, who apparently is 'diposed' or busy, and come back here and all of yous are in a sing-a-long. Geez, if the guys on the board are reading all this thread, they are probably wondering what we ladies are u to..........silly women? Or maybe they are being sensible and sleeping? Or having fun?

Such a way to spend a saturday nite....it gets goofy at times. Well, this chickie's fingers are sore from typing............so roger out and sleep tight all you beauties of rare breeds!

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ditto to you, sew!! and ...

S W E E T D R E A M S!!!!!!

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