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anyone up this late hour?
October 16, 2006
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good night

i am off from work tomorrow

i will also look for u

and thank you sooooooo much

October 16, 2006
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There are 101 posts on this thread!!! Wow! People seem to be insomniacs tonight, LOL!

October 16, 2006
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yeah... i am still up but i am so excited because this site has helped me so much

October 16, 2006
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Hi Needtoheal and Bonita:

needto: looks like you and ella had a good talk. I do hope so.

I'm worn out so I'll say hi better tomorrow. Sleep well ladies.

October 16, 2006
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Hi GG,

I hope you got some sleep.

I too have abandonment issues. Unfortunately I know where the come from. My mother re-married a man who seemed so wonderful, but was an alcoholic like her. He had the emotional depth of an amoeba. He adopted me when I was 7, but when they divorced five years later he asked was the adoption over.

He made no effort to be a father nor did he ever contact me. I last attempted contact with him when I was 18. Never heard anything from him. I remember learning to play American football because he enjoyed it. I got a football for Christmas one year. I thought he was going to play with me. He never did.

I fear rejection and abandonment and hold on very tightly when I think someone is going to leave me. I did that with this past relationship. This time I recognized that it wasn't right. Unfortunately it cost me the love of a man I'm still in love with. He was the first person I put faith in after my divorce. I don't regret doing it. I'm glad I did. I'm dealing with the "If only I had..." feelings right now. They will pass. That's a good thing to know.

Hi Ella,

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