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anyone out there? P&L
August 27, 2006
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I have killed my own thread on making an exit. I need support. Can someone respond? Please help. Thank you. P&L

August 27, 2006
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SURE WHATS GOING ON?
...BUTTERFLY

August 27, 2006
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pc

thanks for the reply...was about to give up writing. I wrote it in my making an exit thread.

August 27, 2006
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P&L:

Hey, how have you been? I don't understand what you are saying the problem is. Sorry. Will go check out your thread.

August 27, 2006
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mama, it is beyond the point of explanation. There is not answer. I am not safe, my career is not safe, and any decisions I make can harm me. I have no good options. I will hurt people either way, including myself. Thus, I have been unable to make a move. I have not even left my house since Tuesday, but that has a lot to do with being sick.

No one gets how distressed I am over all this. My sis in law offered to come here and help me shop and clean, cuz I have been sick, and at least help me with that, so I can focus on my work.

I cannot hurt innocent people. I wanted to leave the toxic situation, but I realize I cannot do it and cause damage to innocent people. I would rather die first. Ethics come before all else with me. I won't hurt anyone to save myself. I won't go on record as doing that. I have my honor. So, I will risk everything for those, in all honesty who might jump ship, if they had to. At least I know I am loyal and stood by what I had to.

This thing is tearing me apart.

August 27, 2006
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fight fire with fire
sometimes you have to really put your foot down,it seems like this bully you were talking about feels that he has the upperhand on you.i do believe in levelingthings out and standing for what i believe is right,dont give up!!!

August 27, 2006
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I was in a similar (but different) situation in the spring. I had a "bully" at work that was making everyone's life miserable. The top person where I work was all about this "bully" so I had no place higher to go with my concerns. There were several other co-workers that I really felt I could trust. I began to talk to them and we all found out that everyone was experiencing the same kind of bullying from this woman. Our union rep took this to the board and we all got a lawyer. The Bully is now gone as is the person directly above her. I go back to work on Monday for the first time since the Bully and her superior were let go.

I have been on vacation for a while now. My I had so much fear about going in to work and what this bully might try next that I took the entire summer off. I couldn't even drive by the place I work for the first month and a half that I was off. In mid July word came that the bully was gone. Her superior was gone in June. I was more at ease and decided it was time to stop by for a visit. I have been back 5 times since then. I have met the new people and am eagar to return on Monday.

Talk to some of your co-workers, they may also be having the same issues as you are. Hire a lawyer.
If this is not possible, get out of there. You do need to let someone know what is going on there though. If you need to write a letter and have it certified. Send a copy to all of the top brass, including your boss, but also send a copy to a couple lower people that you can trust. Let them know how you felt threatened and why you left. Also send one to the authorities. Then there will be a record of your fears.

I don't know what else to tell you P&L. Good luck! Don't give up though, there are things you can do to solve this problem, you CAN do it!

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