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October 11, 2005
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Unfortunatly I am up, so I thought I would chime in to see if anyone needed to talk about anything. I have a strong shoulder and an open mind.

October 11, 2005
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I always do

October 11, 2005
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Ok, so tell what's on your mind.

October 11, 2005
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lots of stuff today i have been working on guilt

October 11, 2005
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What do you feel guilty about? I'm here for you just let it go.

October 11, 2005
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I just looked at the clock thinking it was about 11 ish
IT IS 1 AM - eehhh!
would love to hang out but can not - sorry! Random,I hope you have a peaceful morning!
Oh wait a second - you are at around 10 ish I think, Have a great night!
You too Tinkerbell!
Sweet Dreams,
HD

October 11, 2005
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Read the last post of can not quit drinking. Thats how I currently feel.

October 11, 2005
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well you mostliikely read my other thread about what i did lastnight. I shouldnt have done the whole phone sex thing vut it felt wild and dangrous but harmless at the same time but i just cant believe i let myself do it

October 11, 2005
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but i ahve othr guilt as well i have guilt taht i didnt send my mother to prison when i sent my father. I have guilt that i didnt tell the courts the whole truth about what happend to me. If i ahd my mother and ex step father probbly would ahve gotten 20 yyears in prison. I have guilt that i am not the mother that i need to be

October 11, 2005
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Sometimes we just need to feel needed. The phone sex deal is nothing to ashamed of. You need that thread of wanting. Don't punish yourself over it. We all tend to push ourselves in the wrong direction because of the drama we're having to face in the present. Do what makes YOU feel good and happy. Throw the guilt in the trash, your human.

October 11, 2005
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We all have the guilt when it comes to being a good parent. Lord knows I have carried many times. You do the best you can and God willing your kids turn out the way they should. I am so blessed with mine and I look at them with awe and wonder and say "I did that!" My 20 year old daughter is in medical school and my 10 year old son has ADD. The newest addition to our family is 18 months ans she keeps me in line. Love is what holds all of us together.

October 11, 2005
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I just dont know how to get ridof all my guilt i have been caring it around with me for so long

October 11, 2005
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Tinkrbell,

Did you read my thread? Just wondered if you could offer some guidance. I am really having a hard time here.

Jewel

October 11, 2005
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You just have to remind yourself that you did what you had to. You have to let it go or it will consume your life and your childrens lives as well. They feel what you feel.

October 11, 2005
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Jewel, which thread is it?

October 11, 2005
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Its so hard to let it go. its like a part of me. Im working on it

October 11, 2005
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can not quit drinking

October 11, 2005
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Random, Jewel, talk to me girls come on. I'm not here to judge.

October 11, 2005
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Psssst I was just wondering if the guy was any good or not on the phone....ummmm I'm well......nm lol girl im just playing here, but really it's okay, hell i did the cam thing twice awhile ago........fun but felt the guilt as well......it isn't my thing ya know but i was going crazy, as i usually am over something or another......just let it go and don't do it again!

sygg

October 11, 2005
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This is how I am feeling

It is unbelievable how fast my mood can change from being happy to being sad. It is crazy. I was in a fairly good mood for most of the day and now I am just sitting here crying. My boyfriend and I are going through a hard time right now financially. I am trying to get through school and get a job right now to help pay the bills and he started a new job not too long ago and is away a lot and is not happy with it except for the money. I hate that he is unhappy about it. He know he is lonely with his job and feels bad about leaving me and everything else that he has. This is just so hard. Soon I will get a job so I will be away more too and when he is home, I won't always be around. We are very much in love and it can be so hard to be away from the one that you love. I am having a hard time right now.

October 11, 2005
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Random, except the fact that it is part of your life. Say to yourself:

I did what I had to. It's done. Time to move on."

Put that thought in your head and eventually your mind will except it and you can let go.

October 11, 2005
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Random,

Everyone at one point in their life does something like that. Don't feel ashamed. You are normal. At certain times you have wants and needs and then at other times, you don't crave that same thing. Make sense. Don't feel bad. It is over and done with and you can't change what you did, but you can make changes to what you do in the future.

Jewel

October 11, 2005
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Jewel,

I understand where your coming from. My husband is away alot which leaves me to run the house, the children, hell everything. Sometimes distance can be good for the heart. I know things seem bad but really they could be worse. If your secure in this relationship then you shouldn't have any doubts or worries. Tell me what is really hurting you.

October 11, 2005
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in anwser to your question the guy wasnt very good on the phone. lol And im working on th guilt thing i know what i did back then is what i had to do i know that mentaly but not emotionaly i know a lot of things mentaly like it wasnt my fault but how do you feel that emotionaly how can i stop the if i had only did that or if only i was smarter if only i was good enough how do you get rid of those what ifs that just kill me inside

October 11, 2005
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Random,

This guilt cannot run your life. I can tell by your words that you are putting you best foot forward and you want the best life has to offer.

Look at what you have. I mean really look at it. Tell what you see.

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