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February 27, 2000
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lorene
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any chatters-please read my anyone note. thank you.

February 27, 2000
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REad your note....whew...tough. It's hard to be confided in and then be dropped. Must be hard to miss her too.

I guess from what she has told you in the past you must have felt very close to her and special that she would confide in you. did you get to share as well?
Has knowing what happened changed how you feel about your family?
It seems a little unfair of her...but then maybe if it were me I would have to respect her wishes...but maybe drop her a note to jsut say she's is missed.

Plus it seems like she has left you with a bunch of dirty laundery (hers) to take care of.

I don't know lorene. this is a tough one to consider.
What do you think you want to do?

February 27, 2000
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I can't recollect anything from my past that is negative. even though she saids the sexual abuse is still going on with nieces and nephews. my children i asked them and they said nothing has happened to them. I am trying to support my family and at the same time trying to support her through this tough time. But I am at wits end with my mother. she is completely a wreck, she does not know why her daughter is doing this. I feel torn in pieces. help

February 28, 2000
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One of my daughters young friends accused my oldest son of molestation ...my husband and I confronted the son..who denied it. Went to see the family of thr girl and . took our son to see a clinicl psych jsut so he would have an out if anything had happened.
As events have unfolded since then I think it was a fabrication...Still not sure tho' and still huurts and is scary. Could she be making it up? Is she looking at events from a different angle.
What is her order in the family.? You and your mom should find someone to talk to about this.
There not be a rational explanation for her behavior. And it doesn't matter because it is so painful to others Families do keep some dark secrets. Find out the signs of sexual abuse in children and observe your nieces and nephews. any behavior problems, schoool problems? If there seems to be nothing there - I don't know. there has to be a payoff for a fabrication of this magnitude. Then in theback of your mind is "but what if it is true?"

Does your mom have a pastor or minister she could talk too?

Keep me posted Be Strong Take it a day at a time.

Good Luck

February 28, 2000
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janea; my mom has a priest that she has been confiding in. But she would love to talk or see her daughter before she dies. She has a heart condition and is afraid that she will die before the daughter talks to her again.

February 28, 2000
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hi lorene,

I'M a bit worried about your postings, because on the other thread (Getting married...) there was also a lorene, who's story sounded a lot different. Can you explain?

February 28, 2000
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eve this is my second one my first one was titled anyone and then this one. i went into getting married and i saw my name but that was not me. sorry

February 28, 2000
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lorene & all,

sorry about that, Jason was likely doing a brief update on the equipment while someone ELSE was making that post, and it came out as lorene...

this has happened in the past, and my apology for any lost, or garbled postings during these times....

the database becomes 'unfrozen' and data can be misplaced during those times.

i'll delete the incorrect post from marriage thread.

- SC

February 28, 2000
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If you get a chance talk to your mom's doctor about the heart problem.

If it is as serious as mom thinks maybe you could write your sis a letter explaining what is going on.

If there is anything legt in your sisters heart she would at least make an effort (not necc. make peace with) to see your mom outside of a family function.

She doesn't need to see her abusers to have contact with Mom.

besides that...how are YOU?

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