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December 9, 2005
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December 9, 2005
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Me! Are you okay?!X

December 9, 2005
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Yo.

December 9, 2005
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i guess that depends on what you mean by okay.

how are you doing tonight?

December 9, 2005
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Well, good amazingly! It's morning here though!! Just had my first cup of tea!!!

Hi Philmore too!

Okay can mean much or little, I suppose. I hope things are good with you, maybe makes better sense!!!

How was your day?

~c~X

December 9, 2005
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Good, thanks. Tired in the wee hours. How about you?

December 9, 2005
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Hi Charlie.

December 9, 2005
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it is almost 4am here.

i havent been to work in over a week. i have been very depressed. i need to go to work today, but the closer it gets the more depressed i become. i just want to hideout for a little while longer.

December 9, 2005
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At 4am things always look a little worse!! I have been there with the depression, so I know exactly how you must be feeling, although for each individual it seems that no-one could ever possibly relate!

They can!

And from my experience it might be good to go back in to work today, as it can be just the kick start you need to getting back into the swing of life.

Hiding out is good for a while, but pop your head out of the burrow for a while, open the curtains (when it gets to morning time!), and inhale a big breath of fresh air, and see how you go from there!!

Giant (((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) to you.

~love charlie~XXX

December 9, 2005
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Philmore!!

Do you prefer to be known as Philmore, or Bowles??!!

~c~X

December 9, 2005
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thanks charlie,

i know what you say is true, it just doesn't feel that way. i know that i will feel better after going to work and being productive and stop sticking my head in the sand. i also know that thinking about it is usually worse than the reality.

hope you have a good day.

December 9, 2005
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Hey, you are doing the best you can.

We're like forest creatures really, we need excitement and productivity (look at squirrels!!!), but we certainly need our rest times too.

That's all you needed, a cozy nest to hang out in for a while!!!

Depression is not a bundle of laughs...but with the knowhow it's beatable. You can do it!!!

Try and get some sleep? And then take that big leap. The water may look icy, but after the initial splash, you'll be plain sailing!!!

I'm away with the cliches again!!! LOL

Take care, cpt : )

~love charlie~XXX

December 9, 2005
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Dear cpt,

Why are you depressed? What loss have you experienced that has done this to you?

- Strong

December 10, 2005
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Hi Tom,
I am here. Do you want to talk to me about it?

December 10, 2005
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tom, I would recommend that you call a crisis intervention line--even if you are not planning on killing yourself, they can give you advice, info, resources. They can help you find support and therapy in your price range. They can help you find ways to provide for your family better. Keep talking here, let's see if we can help, and call someone to get some more solid and direct and immediate help. Suicide is a very selfish act if you concider what happens to everyone else when you go, the saddness, the hurt, the missing you, the devistationa dn anger with you. and what if that happiness is just around the corner and you miss it?

December 10, 2005
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I have felt suicidal in my past on different occaisions. I felt like it was the only way out. I am glad I hung in there. I know how it feels to be soooo depressed. Talk with me.

December 10, 2005
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I'm here too, Tom. I have felt like suicide before. Was extremely depressed, just stayed in the house. Lost 60 pounds. Couldn't eat or sleep. Was embarrassed to talk to anyone about it. Can we help? Maybe just talking to someone will help. ((((Tom)))) SD

December 10, 2005
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Looks like quite a few of us are here for you now.

December 10, 2005
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Tell us a little about your family?

December 10, 2005
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I just read what you posted and I am really interested in listening to you. What are you angry about?

December 10, 2005
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Tell us about you!

December 10, 2005
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Are you still here?

December 10, 2005
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My nephew took his life on Christmas Eve 1997. It has impacted our family greatly. I didn't know he was depressed. I would have talked to him but he never asked for help. Do you want help?

December 10, 2005
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You stated that this forum hadn't helped you. I don't ever recall you. Point me to your thread?

December 10, 2005
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Be gentle with yourself Tom. Kids love parents. They don't judge us like you are judging yourself. Lets talk about Why you don't have a job? Was it because you were so depressed you couldn't go to work?

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