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Another big blow out with cheating husband
October 16, 2006
9:56 pm
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MOEY
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Ever time we talk he trys to make be feel bad. He is not happy til I am crying. How do I stay stong when he come around

October 16, 2006
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He sure isn't scoring a lot of points in the remorse department. In fact that's what I would bear in mind every time you talk - he isn't showing remorse. Every nasty comment he makes, say to yourself, "He does this because he feels no remorse."

HE is the one who should be feeling bad but he's trying to make you break down instead so he doesn't have to face his own guilt and shame. That's a dirty game to play.

You don't have to talk to him when he mistreats you. You do not have to accept the unacceptable. Nothing wrong with saying sorry, just heard one of the kids call for me, gotta go, bye, then closing the door in his face or hanging up the phone.

Or if you want to be more direct, you can tell him you don't want to talk to him until he shows you more respect. Something tells me he's doing this because he knows he can... and he may keep doing it until he learns there's consequences to betraying the woman he vowed fidelity to for life.

How is everything else going? Has that woman stopped bothering you? Are you finding any support for yourself and the kids to get through this time?

October 17, 2006
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Don't let him come around. It doesn't sound like you are happy. Why stay if you are unhappy. You can get stronger if he is not around. He is abusive to make you cry. Nobody should be made to cry. None of this is your fault. He should be the one crying. And crying for forgivness. You have strength in you and you will find it even if it is rather small. This man does not deserve your love, so why give it? You deserve way better love than this. Focus on you, and you will get stronger. this husband brings you down so stay away as much as possible. It sounds as if you need distance and a lot of time. Only you can heal the heart though unfortunately. He cannot do it for you.

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