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Angry?Mad? Trying to work out frustration.
October 13, 2004
11:00 pm
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Alyssa1
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Im 33 in a going nowhere relationship. Just accepted a job I love finally. My boyfriend goes to strip clubs lately stating he wants to have fun. Well i feel fun should wait if you havent worked in over a year. He hasnt noticed i am getting stronger by the day since I moved out. How can he think I am going to support him when he does nothing for me. I guess I can tell him how I feel. After 8 years i an the dummy for being an enabler (sp?). Self healing is a trait i believe i have tho I know now outside imnput is needed.

October 14, 2004
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Alyssa, wow, i don't blame you for being mad/and or angry. Sounds like you may have supported him in the past (financially???) and being with him for 8 years thats a long time. I guess "enough is enough"...you did mention you moved out, that is a good thing...why he is spending his "fun" time in a strip club, especially since he hasn't worked in over a year, makes me think he can just do whatever he wants....just be sure not to support this bum!!! and know you can get alot of support on this website and by reading coda books. You need to take care of you right now, and you seem to be on the right path.

October 14, 2004
6:10 pm
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You shouldn't support him if he isn't supporting you, maybe not financially, but emotionally.

Good for you that you are getting stronger...we are all here to help each other with that.

I admire you for being able to be apart from him!

October 14, 2004
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You shouldn't support him if he isn't supporting you, maybe not financially, but emotionally.

Good for you that you are getting stronger...we are all here to help each other with that.

I admire you for being able to be apart from him!

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