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angry with brother (balancesekr)
October 2, 2004
1:57 am
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I am annoyed that my brother still goes to my ex's gigs. My brother asked me last week (when I was talking about the new guy I went on a fate with) if my ex asks him if I am moving on what should he tell him.

I just feel like my brother was such a jerk about my ex not being available, not taking his career to the next level when we were together and I feel my brother definitely did add to some of the conflict my ex and I had.

I feel like my brother is dying to tell me ex that I am moving on so that we will never be together again and my brother can have him all to himself. My brother even got us into a fight a little over a month ago when we were still together... he told me my ex was dancing with girls at the club and the writing was on the wall that we were over! What can I do about this anger? My brother the other day told me stuff about my ex and that he was away on a trip... GRRRRRRRRRRRR

Is my brother just trying to hurt me?

October 2, 2004
6:08 pm
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Balance-

It's hard to say if your brother is trying outright to hurt you, but he sure is hell doesn't seem to concerned whether or not he does. Is there anyway you can drive it home to him that the topic of your ex is off limits? If he goes to see him, you can't stop him, but you don't have to hear about it. Some people love to stir up drama because it makes them feel important. It's a way of your brother getting attention. Very immature.

It's unfortunate that he doesn't mind his own business. No chance that's he's trying to protect you though and please your ex at the same time? Is there anyway we can give him the benefit of the doubt? Sounds like he IS just being a jerk though.

Do you have any sisters?
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October 7, 2004
11:28 pm
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Hi Ella,
Thanks for responding to this. I hope you are well 🙂

Yes, I think he is trying to please both of us. It bothers me that he still goes to my ex's gigs, I feel left out, like I left the party or something, because going to all the gigs and being his lady was kind of cool sometimes... and now it's just over 🙁

I don't have any sisters, but I have YOU.

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October 8, 2004
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Balance (Hey Cyber Sister- that was the sweetest thing to say!),

That must be hard. Well, you can't change your brother's behavior, only communicate your feelings to him. Maybe he'll get bored with your ex's gigs without you being there, or distracted by his own social life. Guys are a little thick about stuff like that. They can socialize with ANYONE if there's a good time to be had, or the sports are on!

-ella

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