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angry and frustrated
September 27, 2001
10:45 pm
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Hi every day come to this web site and read the post and it never cease to amaze me how wonderful you guys are with all the wonderful advice you give, so i decide to put how i feel here and hope i get a response. A year a go my husband and i broke up and divorce, he called me every day to find out of we are ok ( we have two kids)he wants us to still be friends and i have tried but i am getting to the point now where i am so angry at him for leaving and divorcing me that i do not thin i can be his friend he is now seeing another girl but he calls me and tell me he still love me. I guess i started getting angry when he took my kids to his girlfriend house and when he came to get the kids from me he pick her up to stay by his house, i don't like it my girls are asking me if it is daddy's girlfriend and i told them i do not know, the divorce had really gotton my older daughter depress (she is 9) and i am trying to let her know that we will be ok, now she is afraid daddy might have a girlfriend and i on the other hand do not know how to deal with it, after the divorce we were still seeing each other, i did not realize he would have moved on and now i don't know how to let go i sometimes feel that i hate him but i know it is not true, but i get so angry that i can't even look at him. well i think that is long enough i just have so much pent up in me that i get depress and cry. Thanks for reading and responding.

September 27, 2001
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Have you ever told him how you feel? Have you asked him why? Sometimes when we are angry it is hard to see things clearly. My counciler told me that anger is a cover for fear. Have you examined what your fear may be?

September 28, 2001
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It sounds like he feels guilty. Calling you up to see how you are, etc. See, he's the guilty party and knows the turmiol he's caused. Unless he can forgive himself, it will be difficult for him to be friends. maybe you can get him to talk about his guilt, and why he felt he needed to leave...?

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