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And this means what???
June 1, 2005
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the_everglow
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OK... soo, I get this message from a girls new boyfriend. So now what do I do?? I don't know what to do.

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Umm, I guess im going to jump right into it.

Im dating [Girl]. Thats going to change, I know you like her.
But stop... just stop she likes me..thats not going to change.
Im sorry If i was so blunt but your not seeing the fact she likes me, I dont care if your friends idont care if you still talk.. im not possesive like that.
She jut doesnt like you That way.

sorry.

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June 1, 2005
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haha, yay, i hate myself. go me!

June 1, 2005
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everglow,

The girl's boyfriend sounds like a jerk. Think: who would do that? If she didn't want to hear from you it was up to her to say so. Did she? Well she is in for a time with a possessive, insecure, controlling loser if she stays with this one.

Don't hate yourself. After someone rejects us its easy for our bad self esteem to manifest in that way. In fact it seems as if bad self esteem is always looking for "proof" outside ourselves to confirm the many misconceptions that we foster due to it.

Try not to fall into the trap of replying to this jerk. He's just looking for a reaction and doesn't deserve your attention.

keep posting-
ella

June 1, 2005
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oh, but yesterday she was totally fine with me liking her, and wanted things to stay the way they were. she wanted me to keep saying the things i said, but now.... as of tonight after i got that message, i guess she changed her mind. she now wants me to 'tone it down' and says that everything will be the same. i say bullshit. i can't deal with this rejection shit anymore. take chances, go out on a limb. and in my case, fall (sadly not to my death.)

ahhhhhhhh!

June 1, 2005
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haha, yay. maybe this weekend i'll die. i can always hope, ya?

June 1, 2005
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the_everglow

Mmm....I was saying something similar yesterday. I feel drained today, because of the battle I have with life and the effects that events, and other people have on me...

It's amazing how thoughtless other people can be - like take this guy that sent you that text...who does he think he is? It's like a scene from a wildlife show, where a male bison acts all territorial over a female...

Thankfully we are more intelligent than a pack of bison, and the girl in question has a mind of her own - but unfortunately she is doing what all insecure people do, she is trying to keep you 'happy', so that you stick around...she loves the attention, but can't see the effects...

You, and your life are way too special to be thinking of anything but making 'this weekend' - a.k.a. the rest of your long and bountiful life - be affected by these inconsiderate others...

~love charlie~

June 1, 2005
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Ok, maybe I don't understand, but i think I do...

This person has a boyfriend, Right? b I personally think that no matter what, it's wrong to pursue a relationship with/enjoy an emotional relationship with someone who has chosen a REAL relationship with someone else. It is ethically wrong, and it it also walking behind and picking up their crumbs. Whatever we all think of this guy (possesssive, insecure creep, anyone?),and whatever she says or said the other day--she has a boyfriend. She has a relationship already. It eould show you no respect for her to let you whisper from behind the curtain, it would show this guy, lame as he is no respect (ALL people deserve maximum respect to start, I believe.) to go coaxing and swooning this girl who is his GIRLFRIEND. You just shouldn't do it. ANyway, if this is the sort of person she's so impressed with, should you maybe re-evaluate why you are so impressed with her? She must enjoy primarily being admired, the attention and the adoration you get when you hook up with insecure lads. What did you get from this relationship? What did you give to it? What did she give to it?

I think, evergolow, that you deserve something better--ANYONE deserves better than the chance to say sweet things to someone elses girlfriend. Beyond that, you seem to be expressing a real interest in wnating your effections and warmth to be received, something I have not found in many guys myself--you owe it to the female population to make yourself available to the ones of us that are SINGLE and ready to apriciate you!

Of course this guy sounds childish, of course he sounds lame--but what does this say about this GIRL, btw?

June 1, 2005
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well said ef. after reading that...I have nothing left to write.

June 1, 2005
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Love is so exciting.

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