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am i in a bad relationship?
February 3, 2005
5:11 am
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shepam
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i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half but i feel we are not growing in our realtionship.he is doing a masters degree now and i hardly see him.he says he always has to study.when i complain he says am being selfish.he has exams in about a month and says we cant meet socially,cant have sex and i cant sleep over at his place.please give me advise,am really getting lonley and wonder whether i shd walk out of this relationship.

February 3, 2005
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hi shepam my name is karen you are not selfish you have every right to no were you stand in your relationship if he isant going to talk then you need to try some thing else

February 3, 2005
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hi Shep, i guess he is setting his "rules" about seeing eachother and sleep overs etc....that is his choice....Now you can make your choices too, do you like the relationship enough to stick it out till he goes thru his exams??? and after being with him for 2 plus years the relationship should grow, not stand still......you have to honestly ask yourself if you want to stay (keeping the relationship as is) or move forward without him. Best of luck~

February 3, 2005
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It doesn't sound like you are getting any of your needs meet. He is offering you nothing. Stop seeing and talking to him him until his exams are over. If the relationship is not growing that is a bad sign. Both people have to be committed to emotional intimacy for it to grow.

February 3, 2005
3:52 pm
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I would think that even if he's studying and he has exams etc that he would want to take a break at one point or another. What better kind of break to take than to be with your loved one? He's not studying while he's sleeping is he? So what's wrong with you staying over?? I think he's just using that as an excuse to not be with you. Maybe he's getting bored? Maybe it's time to plan your own evenings without him and see if he comes around.

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