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Am I going insane?
November 4, 2004
5:42 pm
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I met a man 14 yrs younger 2 years ago and he swept me off my feet. mInd you, I dont look my age, we look equal. Anyway, the man of my dreams became a monster the moment we married. Both having children from previous relationships with massive age differences but still home, we set out ground rules and agreed on them even when we did disagree. For over 1 1/2 years I have led a false life. He dropped all respect for me like a hot potatoe, constantly yells at me infront of friends and children, has had me sent overnight for phyciatric review, i tried leaving once and he called the police and told them I was being irrational and had been drinking and taking pills of course non of it proved true. I am not allowed to touch him at night, even accidently. He yells at me during a dead sleep for snoring. He says I have a drinking problem for having a glass of wine every night, while his buddies put away 30pks for days on end. He has a good job, doesnt have to work all 4 weeks, so the days he has off, he is always complaining about always having to clean the house, which isnt true. He has woken my daughter in the middle of the night to tell her that we are getting a divorce. Every fight or argument we have which is now every 4 months, he has thrown his wedding ring at me and made veral accusations. I have once gone out with the girls and never will again, because he accused me of meeting a man to have sex with. He has no sex drive and hasnt fully kissed me for over 8 months. He constantly insults my heritage and recently, i thought we were getting along and out of the blue he said he wanted a separation because he doesnt agree with my decisions about my daughters weekend because she isnt pulling an "A" average. She never has. Too many high expectations from him towards my behavior, my daughters behavior, my son left sick of hearing all the fights and moved in with his dad. I need my butt kicked. Please help

November 4, 2004
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You're not crazy. Probably. Yet.

You are in a very abusive relationship. Read Patricia Evans.

November 4, 2004
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Sounds like this guy's head isn't screwed on too tight. You know?

Check out this website. There is a link to message boards at the bottom on the left. I think you will see similar stories there.

http://bpdcentral.com/

November 5, 2004
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Your husband sounds very abusive. It doesn't sound like you are getting any of your needs met. Why stay with this man? It doesn't sound like he even loves you. It may be a blessing that he wants a separation for your sake.

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