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am I co-depended?
January 14, 2000
10:29 am
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last week i just was told that i am co-depended. My homework was to resurch the toypic.There are days i am very depressed, very lonley. and with 2 small children and a husband gone from 8am. to 7p.m Monday to Friday and 7am. to 5p.m Sat. and Sun. if he does't sleep afterwards or go out. If i want to go out without the kids or just spend some time with him he on the computer or to tired to do anything. And we have no babysitter i have tried to ask some students but our area is very large with adults not students. I feel fat, not pretty and i compare myself to others. My husband is older then me and he does't want even sometimes to play with the kids they get to him with an half an hour. We are talking to our marriage counceller on this problem so far nothing has changed.

January 14, 2000
2:57 pm
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HI maresa.
I don't know if you are co-dep or not, but i think you are quite right in wanting to spend some time with your husband, you seem to be spending alot of time on your own looking after to the children, the kids belong to both of you, your husband must help out. Why is he working such long hours, surely he could work a little less even if you had to make do with a little less money.
I am glad you are getting councelling on this because they can tell you more than me, i just wanted to say that i don't think you are being unreasonable considering how much time your husband leaves you to care for the kids alone.
Please let us know more and keep us up-dated

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