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Am I cheating him?
March 25, 2001
6:38 am
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He's one of my best friend, and he's really really good to me. He is the kind of good friend that will never leave you especially when you need him. I had never expected, but he told me that he has fallen in love with me. I don't know how to respond. Later we talked about this and he understand that I am not thinking developing a relationship other than friendship with him. He's still good to me. All the same, he never leaves me. When I feel happy, when I feel sad, when I am sick, when I am good. ....sometimes, I feel bad. I mean I feel like I am cheating him. because when I am sad, when I am not in good mood, I rely on him very much. I know I shouldn't "keep" him in a way like that. He should go out and is able to find a better girl than me. but sometimes, I become selfish and dependent on him. I ask him to stay with me when I feel blue. He's too good to me. He never reject me if I ask. when he knows that I am sad, he will do a lot of things to cheer me up. He's just too good.
Am I cheating him? I don't know. I just feel that if things continue, it wouldn't be good to both of us. but I don't know what should I do. I don't want him leave. but on the other hand, I feel that I am not able to love him......any advice?

March 26, 2001
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You are not cheating him if you have made your position clear. Affection and caring are also human emotions and in some people there is more room for it. Do not make yourself miserable by feeling guilty. Be good friends,there is nothing wrong in it. If eventually it turns into love so be it. There is no need for conscious effort either way.

March 29, 2001
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so I'm not doing sth wrong??? sometimes I wish I could love him.

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