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always miss a good thing
September 19, 2000
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fish27
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Can somebody please tell me why men always seem to let a good thing pass them by? If you had a woman who was in your corner, always there to support you, had a good job, could cook very well (like mama's cookin'), who was morally sane, confident, ambitious and a true team-player and who has a house, would you leave her? Well, he messes up the once and I'm still willing to stick by him, only if he apologizes (he did that), comes back home (he hasn't done that yet), we work things out together, and he promises learn from this and never make the same mistake again. Also, he has to go to counseling and we have to go to counseling together. He has not made a decision yet (it has been three weeks now). I gave him an ultimatum because I'm just not made that way; I can't let a man put me on hold. Either you want us to work or you don't. You know what I mean? He says he loves me, but of course, his actions show otherwise. What the hell is wrong with these men?! If they are not just plain dogs, their threatened by you; or the run at the first sign of trouble. Why? Why? Why? I just give up! I'm tired, I'm a single mother, I don't need the headache. Oh, and I have prepared myself because I already know what his decision is going to be. He can't handle it.

September 19, 2000
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Because most men are so out of touch with their emotions they don't know what they want. But I'm the last person to give advice. Rest assured of that. Everyone who knows me thinks I'm Mr. Perfect....the exact opposite of what you have experienced BUT, only my wife knows my darkest side and rest assured, from the outside looking in, nothing is ever as it appears so you are not alone.

September 19, 2000
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Because most men are so out of touch with their emotions they don't know what they want. But I'm the last person to give advice. Rest assured of that. Everyone who knows me thinks I'm Mr. Perfect....the exact opposite of what you have experienced BUT, only my wife knows my darkest side and rest assured, from the outside looking in, nothing is ever as it appears so you are not alone.

September 19, 2000
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Because most men are so out of touch with their emotions they don't know what they want. But I'm the last person to give advice. Rest assured of that. Everyone who knows me thinks I'm Mr. Perfect....the exact opposite of what you have experienced BUT, only my wife knows my darkest side and rest assured, from the outside looking in, nothing is ever as it appears so you are not alone.

September 19, 2000
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women love to much. It scares them. I take it he is not the father of your children, if that is so cut him loose, and love you and the kids,take some time for your self, learn about your self, what you want and need. Get strong, take a leave of abscense from the dating relation maze. Read write, learn to invest become more financiall secure. Then when you are so complete, some one worthy will come your way, and if he is not worthy , you will not be so willing to take him in, or tolorate his act. It hurts and it is hard, but I think if we women can learn to do this, things will change for the better.

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