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alone, lonely and starting to get depressed
July 6, 2009
1:34 am
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MindFrame87
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Hi, all, am new to this...But am middle aged divorced times about 8 years. have 2 young adults still at home full time. I just cant't seem to maintain a secure relationship with the opposite sex. Maybe Im looking for perfection. Then I often say that I gave my best and still ended up on the short end. Is it too much to ask for complete honesty, loyalty and trust???Confused as ever...any advice?

July 6, 2009
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MindFrame87,

Welcome to the site. What exactly are the reasons why you actually break up with your partners? There is a reason why we attract the people we do. Most of the time, we attract those who have similar energy like we do. We tend to like or dislike those aspects of our partners our partners that we like or dislike about ourselves. In this way, they mirror to us the realities we aren`t willing to face and grow. If you have a neglectful partner, chances are you have neglected yourself and do not have much value for yourself. Work on strengthening yourself and you will attract a different kind of a man.

July 6, 2009
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Thanks fantas, I have often thought that maybe i expect too much and maybe women have let men off too easy. I don't want to be one to have to settle for the blasie. I don't expect perfection but I do expect honesty. When did little white lies become okay? I am often told that I am just too independent and too head strong. Do I have to become the stupid blond to fit in and keep a man. Am I condemed because i am fairly smart, gainfully employed and moderately successful by todays standards? What gives here. I am usually left for no apparent reason. I guess this last time he just completely shut down and I felt as if he no longer wanted what we had. no talk or communication whatsoever. so I asked him to leave. Guilty of reading peoples vibes and signals. I often say that there are no bars or handcuffs to hold you here. and I truly feel this. But I stand on conviction when I say let your word count for something, that rarely happens anymore.

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