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all sorts of confusion!!!
February 23, 2006
9:58 am
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I sometimes don't know the difference between feeling and thinking. I have been with this wonderful man who trests me like a queen for 4 years. He is my world and I lovew him so much. I do plan on marrying him one day. Recently we got into a discussion about goingt o counseling if our marriage was failing and he pretty much told me if we can't work it out on our own then we should not be together. I have moved on past that statement. I realize that it was just a knee jerk response form a man.
I have been on antidepressants for a month now and I'm still crying. We have talked on and off about spending time away for a month sometimes I think I can do it and sometimes I think I cannot. My thoughtsd have ranged from him not being romantic enough to wether or not I really wanted to be with him. I know he loves me and I love him and we take that as face value. Im all confused and I just don't know. I can be up one day and not think about him and then I could spend all day thinking about him. I have looked into mood disorders, Im getting my hormones checked and I have even looked into an estrogen dominance disorder. I do love him and I do want to be with him so why am I having bad thoughts?

February 23, 2006
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I am reading a book about 'Mars and Venus dating' and it is very informative...there is a stage of uncertainty if the relationship is working out.
and it is a natural response, it sounds like.
and it sure goes into depth on how men and women differ in their reactions.

men get distant, women tend to get clingy..it gives you different ideas on how to deal with that.

maybe that is what you need to look at, too much pressure on the relationship will ruin it....maybe women think too much, I know I do!
Let things happen the way they are suppose to, don't try to force it, it is a big commitment and big step.

Good luck!

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