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December 4, 2001
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JUST GOT ALL MOVED IN AND THINGS ARE GOOD. THANKS ALOT TO YA'LL FOR YOUR SUPPORT THROUGH ANOTHER ROUGH TIME IN MY LIFE. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

December 4, 2001
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Yea, but now you have to unpack. See where all the help is now har har har, good for you, may the angels continue to watch over you and guide you, and help you through this wonderful change. bless you and your new home.

December 4, 2001
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So when is the housewarming party and what do you want us to bring--me and my chubby little cherub buddy, I mean.
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December 4, 2001
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Now then....this is step One - be very vigilant about your boundaries and keep them in check - every day, every hour, every minute. This new place - is a new space in your life - so you decorate how you need to - only with people in it - that are good to you. And it is okay for you to take off the martyr costume and start living and breathing as a person with rights, with feelings and a person that can say No and not feel guilty about it. (smile) People can love you - just because you're you and not because you allow yourself to be a doormat for them. Time to really put that into practice all the time, so be ready to be vigilant and to exercise parts of yourself - that won't like the exercise....

The rest of your life - can be completely different than the other half. So glad to see you come this far. Many people would have caved by now. Remember however, that many do come this far and then go back, too though. So, don't be one of those people.....stick to your guns and know that - you don't have to give an accounting to everyone about why you do certain things. You're not on trial here and you don't need to "assume" that position. Your No can be No and your Yes can be Yes and that's all anyone needs to know. "I have my reasons and they are not open to inspection or debate, end of story."

December 4, 2001
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you even think of going back, and you will see Molly go totally midevil.

December 4, 2001
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YA'LL ARE ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL I FEEL AS THOUGH A WEIGHT HAS BEEN LIFTED OFF MY SHOULDERS.

LADESKA: YOU HIT IT RIGHT ON THE HEAD GF, THANKS FOR YOUR PRAYERS. MY SON GOT TRANSFERRED TO STATE LAST NIGHT AND I TALKED TO HIS BOSS THIS MORNING AND HE IS WILLING TO HOLD HIS JOB FOR HIM WHICH IS REALLY WONDERFUL AND HE TOLD ME THAT SOME OF HIS CO-WORKERS WANT TO GO AND VISIT HIM. MAYBE THIS WILL SHINE A LIGHT AT THE END OF HIS TUNNEL. IT IS A GOOD DAY TODAY

December 4, 2001
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What will shine a light to the end of his tunnel is life getting hard enough, when people quit making it easy for him - that "he" decides to make some different choices. From what I hear or understand here - you aren't the only one that runs to his rescue when he gets a boo-boo. This is called "enabling" and it isn't a kind thing to do for him. Give a hand up and all that, but he may be learning how to be quite the charmer while continuing to do - contrary things that bring harm to himself and maybe to others....at least to you - with all the worrying.

Maybe I'm off in left field here with this. But, I shudder sometimes when I hear things that indicate everyone is waiting on someone who continues to make bad choices. He's young though, so benefit of the doubt given here... You just keep this in your head though. Sometimes we want to make things easy on them when in all reality - they can stand quite a bit of pain and discomfort. Thus, the reason - it takes them so long - to learn anything. Just food for thought.

December 4, 2001
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LADESKA:

I HAVE DONE THE TOUGH LOVE THING AND HAVE DONE IT IN THIS SITUATION ALSO, HIS BOSS CALLED ME AND OFFERED THIS BECAUSE HE SAW POTENTIAL IN MY SON AND HE REALLY IS A GOOD KID AND WILL BE 21 IN FEBRUARY. WE ALWAYS WANT TO SPARE OUR CHILDREN BUT LIKE I TOLD HIM YESTERDAY YOU DID THE CRIME YOU HAVE TO DO THE TIME IF YOU CAN'T OBEY THE GUIDELINES OF YOUR PROBATION.

YOUR FOOD IS GOOD FOR THOUGHT. THANKS.

December 6, 2001
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BLONDIE:

SURE THING, MY DAUGHTER'S BOSS GOT ME A FREE MEMBERSHIP TO BALLY'S FOR A YEAR. YES THINGS ARE GOING WONDERFUL THANKS AGAIN FOR ALL THE HELP AND ENCOURAGEMENT

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